GIRLS: if a guy was a virgin and bad at s*x the first time, would that be a deal breaker?

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GIRLS: if a guy was a virgin and bad at s*x the first time, would that be a deal breaker?

Answer 1

dude, i talked to emily today. she said you were fine and she was just sick. she said she didnt even know you were a virgin. so you must not have been that bad. hit that boyeeeeee.

Answer 2

Not if I really cared about him.  Everyone's sort of bad at s*x at first.  

You should learn about a woman's body and what makes her feel good.  First, don't go straight for her crotch.  The most important thing to remember is that girls are very different from guys, as much in the way they like s*x as in their physical parts.  Most guys go from 0-60 in 5 seconds flat. I know my husband loves it if I start a session with a *******.  But for girls you have to start with kissing, stroking, nuzzling, etc  Her neck, her ears, her b*****s, etc. After at least 5 min of this you can begin to work you way lower.  

Now all girls are different so you have to start with the basics and find out what she prefers.  First, avoid touching her dry, you should start with a little oil or KY on a couple fingers, then you can start gently rubbing around her C**t.  Don't touch it right away as it can be very tender to start with, you can go back and forth with your fingers, inside then outside, etc. Keep it moist!!

If you do oral, start with just the tip of your tounge, running it around her C**t before actually flicking and l*****g her C**t.  After awhile you could start using the flat of your tounge to run across the whole area alternatly with the tip of your tounge.  Humming while doing this adds a whole vibration effect that is always amazing in oral s*x.

Contrary to popular belief most women can't o****m thru penetration so your job is to learn how to give her one thru clitoral stimulation.  Most guys think that penetration is so amazing for them that it must be the same for the girl but that's not at all accurate.  Penetration can actually be very painful and not just for virgins.  A female needs foreplay, it actually stimulates lubrication and causes the muscles in the area to relax and the v****a to lengthen slightly to make more room for penetration.  

Once it's time for penetration take it slow at first. She should take hold of you and direct you.  For your first time you probably won't last a long time but that's ok.  Just take it easy, take it slow.  Actually sometimes after you o****m the first time, take a little rest but continue touching and kissing.  You should be able to become erect again and the second time you can last longer before o****m.

This is a good picture cause you can click on different parts to see what and where they are.  

http://www.teenwire.com/interactive/diag...

Answer 3

Absolutely not.  First off, if a guy was a virgin, for me it would be a turn on but regardless, bad s*x at first is more then likely, don't worry about it so much.  If you've had the s*x already, focus on the parts you liked and go from there.  If you think this is a deal breaker for the girl you were with, she's not really worth your time if she didn't expect it, esp if she wasn't a virgin, its up to her to take the lead.  

Answer 4

Not if I really liked him. He's gonna get better at it and s*x wouldn't be a reason for me to break up with someone.

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Answer 5

no, the funnest part is teaching them how to be better, no guy ever knows everything you like the first time especially if they have never even done it before

Answer 6

No

s*x always gets better each time.

Answer 7

Not if he is actually a vigin, it means that his mind isnt always focused on haveing s*x with a girl...thats some guys missions in highschool...so immature and annoying...

Answer 8

nah ...u can teach him things he's a blank camvas haha

Answer 9

practice makes progress.

Answer 10

Absolutely not. Teaching would be fun  :)

Answer 11

its not possible to be bad at s*x bro..the thing between your legs has been with you your whole life and you 2 know each other. Put in some work dont think about that sh*t

Answer 12

Not if u know he's a virgin...how can he know how to please anyone if he never had the experience.  Best time to teach...

Answer 13

Probably not the first time. Although she might not ever talk to you again, which means you won't ever get a second chance. But if she does give you another shot don't blow it!