GIRLS!! what did it feel like the first time...?

Question

you had s*x??

and how old were you?

i am considering going all the way with my boyfriend and just want to hear from others.

i am 16 by the way, do you think i am too young?

Answer 1

Im still a virgin.

Im 15. =]

But it all about how you feel for him.

If your comfortable with it, then do it.

But make sure your ready.

Please, dont push yourself.

Im told it does hurt, but just wait and

then it would be all good.

Im just worried that if i have s*x with one person,

and we break up, who am i going to do it with now?

Especially, if your not trying to be a h o e.

So, its pretty hard. Just think 5 times before you let it go.

Answer 2

If you want to have s*x with him. don't let him pressure you into doing it if you don't want to.

Answer 3

i was 21.. i think ur too young, as u know no contraceptive is 100% effective .. can u handle having a baby?...aside from that once u start having s*x u get into a whole new set of problems .. ur young u should enjoy being ur age

Answer 4

Your way to young. I suggest wait till marriage. When you wait it will feel extra special for you and your husband. He will love you even more.

My first time was really painful. I think its always painful the first time, but it hurt so bad we didn't even finish it.

When my boyfriend and I broke up, I started regretting it. I was like always telling myself I should of waited, I should of waited.

Now my boyfriend and I are back together and I do not have those thoughts anymore.

It is always good to wait till marriage, it will probbly be the best thing you ever do!

Answer 5

The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penetration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not all have pain. I never bled but there was a lot of pain.

For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as the v****a has been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubricated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.

Relaxing, foreplay, (oral s*x, more foreplay – touching, kissing, etc) being fully aroused or better yet, you having an o****m FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.  Problem is most young guys aren't experienced enough or care enough about their partners pleasure to make it happen for the girl.

Part of growing up is making good decisions for yourself.  As long as you don't expect to marry this guy and you are ok with having s*x with him, fine. Problem is most young girls think the guy they first have s*x with is the one they will marry.  Not necessarily true. You will do so much changing and growing between now and 25 that you won't recognize yourself when you look back later.

Answer 6

TOO YOUNG!!!  

Answer 7

Well, are you ready for the possible consequence of an unplanned pregnancy. I got pregnant twice on birth control pills but luckily I was older and things worked out.... What would you do at 16? I was 18 when I first had s*x and it wasn't as great as people made it out to be. More fun for the guy... especially since they are inexperienced at that age!! Even if they think they are not!

Answer 8

I havent had s*x yet.Im 15 and yes u r 2 young.