GUYS: Do you really want a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed?

Question

I think guys say they want this, but when they really get it, it trauamtizes them and they think she is really a freak everywhere! They can't handle a good girl who can be really bad in bed...

Answer 1

I like a freak in bed, but I kinda like my lady to be a little on the wild side sometimes when we are out, too.  Not loose and flirty with others, but a little nasty with me.  Makes it great when we get home

Answer 2

True..I read guys on yahoo and heard some people say in real life "If she's doing it with me, she's probably doing it with a lot of other guys."  

It's a no-win situation.

Answer 3

What exactly do you mean by "freak in the bed?" If you mean a woman who's wild, creative, and adventurous in the bedroom than yes. You seem to be implying that people who are "freaks in bed" are s***s who go around sleeping with everyone. That's not always the case. Over the years an individual can learn and improve new skills regarding the the bedroom with the previous partners they've had. That doesn't necessarily mean they go around sleeping with anybody.

Answer 4

Yes.

Answer 5

Yes!

I sure do, I want a woman who respects herself, and carries herself with respect, but can be have an open mind, and fun in the bed room.

Answer 6

Well if she is truly only a "freak in the sheets" and truly acts like a "lady on the streets" then there really isnt an issue because she has done nothing to make him feel he cannot trust her or that she is playing games.

Yes, I believe most men looking for a long term relationship with a "lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets", but they also want to know that this is her true self and that she is not going to be a freak in someone else's sheets.

Answer 7

What guys want is a stable woman at home, and wild women on the side.

OK seriously, yes guys do want a woman who is adventurous in bed, but only with them. They want to know that she is still committed to the relationship outside of s*x. Some insecure guys I guess will start freaking out as you said. But usually that's their own fault.

In the book "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People", Stephon Covey recounts a story of a man whose wife did not trust him, especially when he went on business trips. It turns out that the man had met his present wife on one such business trip, while at the time married to someone else. Understandably, his new wife did not trust him. His counsellor's advice was "You can't talk your way out of a problem you behaved yourself into".

Most of the times people have these insecurity issues, it's because they picked up a woman who is likely to cheat on them. If you know the woman you have, this isn't really an issue.

Also, guys do find it irritating when they have a great wife/gf, but who is tame in bed. By tame, I don't mean inexperienced, but rather unwilling to experiment. That is frustrating to say the least. It makes them think that they got short changed by that relationship, and of course they feel guilty about thinking that way.

Answer 8

I think your right. Because in back of his head, he will always wonder, where did she get this stuff from, who taught her. I personally want someone open to my freakness. I think that's the meaning behind freak in the bed. Someone open to thier freakness, not they're already freaky.

Answer 9

I think they start to wonder where she learned everything, and it starts to get to them.

Answer 10

I like a stable woman lol. But if she wants to be lke that in the bed to me and no other man then be my guest lol

Answer 11

ugh sure

Answer 12

Where did you ever hear such nonsense. I have never met a man who couldn't handle a "good girl" who was something else in bed.