GUYS HELP! What to say to a random guy on facebook?

Question

alright..i havent been in a relationship for a while and im srta looking for someone. and i was just on my friend's facebook bc i was gonna write on her wall to say how much i miss her.she lives a town over from me.im not too close to her because we drifted apart and i saw this reallly cute guy on her friends that goes to her school.i dont think she talks to him but im really attracted to him..like none of the guys in my town are the kind that i would go for but idk what to do! i friend requested him but he didnt say anything but idk ... i want to start talking to him =] what should i say to him??? BUT I REALLLY DONT WANT TO SEEM DESPERATE.thats the last thing i want to be. do u think meeting someone onlines worth it?

Answer 1

just say hey do i know you or ask your friend to learn more about him

Answer 2

you should talk to your frined about him first... she may no t know him that well, but obviously she knows him more than you. Then maybe she can arrange yall meeting randomly at a perty or something.

or this allways works too...

   Hey! have i met you before? you seem really familiar.?

Answer 3

Just give him a simple hello. Explain how you saw that he was a friend of your friend, and that you'd like to say hi. Tell him a little about yourself.

DON'T make it sound like it took you 3 hours to perfect your message. Us guys can easily pick up on that. Just keep it calm and cool, and he'll get a kick out of that.

Be smooth, don't be antsy. Be casual.

If you tweak your message too much, it will sound awkward, like a sales pitch. Keep it short and sweet. Baby steps...

"Hey, my name is XXXXX, and I saw you were friends with YYYYY. You seem pretty cool, I figured I would say hi and introduce myself. How's school going?"

End with a question of some sort. This will open the communication channels. Always remember, you can't have a relationship unless you have a friendship first. Focus on the friendship, and then work your way up when the time is right.

Answer 4

This one usually works: "Hey."

Or you could always go with the famous, "If you don't want kids, why don't we just practice."