GUYS: Would you have a serious relationship with a bi-sexual girl?

Question

or would u not take her seriously?

Because I'm surprised how many guys and girls still think its always a phase

thanks x

i just wanna know before i get a bf and if i decide to tell him?

Answer 1

I have a very serious relationship with a bisexual woman (or two).  But the truth of the matter is that I didn't know she was bisexual until a couple of years after we were married.  If I had known?  I don't think it would have made any difference to me, but finding out when I did and how I did was a bit of a shock.  I'm very happy with our marriage and with the relationship we share, and I wouldn't want to change a thing.  At the time though, I did have to do some soul searching.

I guess the moral of my story is that the sooner you are honest with someone, the better.

Answer 2

well I'm a g*y man so no. but if It was a BI guy and I was single I would have no problem just as long as they weren't cheating on me.

Answer 3

If you aren't going to have an open relationship then he won't take you seriously.

Answer 4

No.....that kind of confusion will eventually leave me by MYSELF.  Cause let's think "oh she's bi, GREAT that means i can have massive 3somes and can s***w whoever i WANT!"  but what he DOESN'T realize is that being bi is just that 'do i want a girl or a guy' phase that can eventually lead her to just stay L*****n and leave him 'out of the picture' with other women.  Unless he doesn't mind her practically 'cheating' on him with other women....the 'other girl' might want more than just a fling...and depending on the relationship that L*****n girl could possibly take her away from him.

Then there are those who just like women and having fun with them.....not a matter of lesbianism mind you but they would definitely GO there with a girl for the sake of excitement.  That may favor the guy as well...but that whole 'willingness' to do 'whatever' constitutes her lack of any moral value...or it's very LESS....which means that eventually her 'need' for excitement can go beyond just 'women' and suddenly OTHER guys will be involved.  Because hey, it's her life, she wants fun....and s*x is just 'fun' to her so what would be the problem of having a guy or two on the side...you let her have girls too!  



PERSONALLY i wouldn't because it involves a third party..i'm not a swinger, not an open relationship kinda guy..i like having one person alot and forever....that whole share thing complicates alot.

In your case....let him know early in the relationship, and what you'll want BECAUSE you're a bisexual...because a lot of guys (good ones at least) won't be open to it...call it an ego thing but sharing even with WOMEN can complicate things for them.

Your best bet is to get with someone into swinging or open relationships....plenty of them out there, and those guys would be MORE than willing to accept your bisexuality than any monogamous fellows.

good luck to ya.

Answer 5

Personally I'd love it! Will your G/F be joining in the festivities??????

Answer 6

yes... why wouldnt i ?

Answer 7

No, there would be no point.

Answer 8

No guy is going to trust a bisexual girl, just like Mike K said about himself. I wouldn't either.

You'll be a lot happier being straight. No one is born g*y or bi. Believe me, I've known people who were bi when they were younger and were happier being straight when they got older.

Answer 9

Hello,

No, I like my partner to be loyal and whilst I can compete with most guys, I cannot compete with another woman. Most bisexual or L*****n woman I met are honest enough to tell you upfront before you become interested in them and I stayed friends instead.

Cheers,

Michael Kelly

Answer 10

Well, I'm not a guy but I am bi.. and my bf is dating me [4 years now].. so I think if he was here.. he'd say yes haha.

Answer 11

I wouldn't have any type of relationship with a girl. Ya know that being the g*y bit in the L*****n, g*y, Bisexual and Transgender

Answer 12

Yeah sure why not. I would take her seriously if she seriously wants a relationship with me. If she keeps switching her sexual preferences then I think I will tell her that if she wants to make out with a girl then why is she still with me. I don't mind her being bisexual but when she is with a guy she should devote herself to the guy totally because a straight guy only is devoted to a girl. Also it provides an extra incentive to win her heart from another girl to see who is the real romantic and true lover. If she still insists on bringing another lass to bed with us then I will flat out tell her that I only want her in my life and if I cannot be the only one in her life then it is better for us to seek happiness somewhere else.

Answer 13

im a bi girl but yeah some guys do. my ex and i were together for a year and 4 months....hes was the greatest bf ever....ive only had one lol but still he was awesome, sweet, just amazing.

ps. and he wasnt a jerk who wanted three sums...blah..i hate those guys

Answer 14

My boyfriend has always been very accepting of my sexuality; he's straight, but he understands that being bisexual doesn't mean you need to have a relationship with both a man and a woman. We're monogamous.

It's completely up to you whether or not you decide to tell him, and how soon - my boyfriend and I share the same group of friends, so he already knew about my sexuality before we got together. If he hadn't known, I'd probably have mentioned it casually in conversation quite early on - if it was a problem for him, or he made a "threesome" comment then I'd know he's not the right guy for me.

A lot of people misunderstand bisexuality, but there are men who will appreciate your honesty and love you for who you are.  

Answer 15

as long as I get to watch or maybe join in! Seriously!