GUYS..can a men love unconditionally.Any guy here been successfully married over 30 yrs?

Question

if this is so then why do so many men cheat and fall outof love after his wife gets old and doesnt look the same although she tries to maintain her appearance?...and no im not men bashing!..JUST GENERALIZING BECAUSE ITS TRUE..and even though women cheat too its not at all compared to how many men do it.Just curious to know how you men think

thanks

Answer 1

I have been married for 33 1/2 yrs. It is something you have to work at. You can not just throw in the towel when things get a little rough. You have to work through it. It is not always easy. Little known fact. Just as many women cheat as men and maybe even more, you just do not hear about it as much. It is kept quiet when a woman cheats but when a man does it, the word is out all over town. Many time a married man is cheating with a married woman so it takes two to cheat. I have had no desire to cheat because. I know how good I have it at home. I know what looks good out there but it more than likely is not as good as what I have at home. It may also have something that I do not want STD or even worse HIV/AIDS. I sure do not want to take that home. My wife says I can look all I want but I can not touch. That is fine with me. I look get turned on and go home take it out on her, ooh what fun.

Answer 2

only dogs and young children can love unconditionally...

everyone else PUTS conditions on love... ;)

Answer 3

If you really wanna talk to 50 yr old couples....i'd try somewhere other than "Yahoo Answers"...In my opinion, I think this has become more of a cultural issue rather than a gender one. This generation and especially the western world doesn't show appreciation and reverence for marriage...

Answer 4

I know some guy can. But other people call them stupid. But to them, it is love and they willing to do anything for the girl. Yes, unconditional love exist, but very rare, because human selfish and afraid to get hurt.