GUYS: do you prefer it if she's a virgin?

Question

..why?

Answer 1

guys have a hidden sense of territory i guess..kinda 'i was  there first' also it means alot to the girl, and the guy knows it. depending on the guy it means either of these

Answer 2

honestly i would like to hook up with a girl who is a virgin... cuz i would get the change to make her first time a memorable thing... but other than that s*x is MUCH better when everyone knows what to do.

Answer 3

Why do you even care.

Answer 4

Its not like as a guy you can ever really know.

A girl can say she's a virgin and not be, or say she isnt and be one.

Answer 5

Guys like to think that they are the only one. We don't really want to know about the other guys or what you did with them.

If your not and he is asking if you are just be honest without all of the details.

Answer 6

probably guys like that cuz they R the 1st ones n they are "clean"

Answer 7

because we are fresh and no one has tooken away our purity yet. im 18 an dim still keeping my purity

Answer 8

i do because if we make love it will be special

Answer 9

From a physical standpoint, it sucks, they're too tight, and complain about how much it hurts. They don't get into it like experienced girls do.

From a psychological standpoint, it's freakin' awesome. The feeling of power you get from deflowering a girl is the best thing ever and almost makes up for how terrible she is in bed.

Answer 10

gawd...men want a virgin because they hate being compared to other men.

and a girls first usually isn't all the special or great.  it's just something that needs to get done before she can REALLY enjoy s*x.

a more experienced woman is better because she will actually move in bed.  ha!

i haven't had THAT many lovers...but i've had enough to know that the virgin status is overrated...i don't know why men want that drama!! you have s*x with a virgin, she is clinging to you FOREVER!

and as far as being tighter, that's a myth.  i've had a child and went right back to being toooo tight....even my doctor complains...even my man sometimes....a v****a is elastic...and they come in many sizes...being a virgin doesn't guarentee anything and being an "experienced" woman doesn't mean it's all stretched out.

and i love these guys on here who want a virgin cause it means they were smart enough to wait, yet think they are the reason?  lol please...women want s*x just as much as men do.  at some point, women just do it to get it over with...

and s*x before marriage is good.  no matter how much you love someone, when you marry them, then decide to have s*x, it could really be awful.  i've been REALLY into guys only to find that there was NO CHEMISTRY in the bedroom.  and i'l not live a life with bad s*x.  you think love makes up for that...hahahaha but you are wrong.

and as a woman you DON'T get attached to every guy...gawd...sometimes tis' just s*x and that's okay.  just be safe about it...i don't pine over every lost lover...h**l, i don't even talk to them.  i don't think badly about them and i don't compare them to my husband.  and in all actuality, my husband is the best lover i've ever had.  :D

Answer 11

Yeah. In fact, that's the preference.

Why? Because it shows she has enough self-respect and intelligence to not be used by some guy who says a few sweet things to get into her pants.  

Answer 12

I could not care less about a person's sexual history. Virgin, non-virgin, it doesn't matter.

Answer 13

i love virgins because its rare!! and i love it when no other guys p***s was inside it which makes it fresh!! i love virgns!  

Answer 14

I personally love being a virgin because I know once when I finally do give myself to my husband he'll know that he's the only one. Also women get emotionally attached easily so if you have s*x with a man you're always going to have feelings for him, and that would not be fair to your husband.

Answer 15

it honestly makes no difference to me.

if they are, than thats admirable thats they've waited.

if they aren't, than I dont judge.

Answer 16

well most guys prefer a virgin but i dont know why i think they feel they have more control over a woman that is a virgin me, i really dont care because being a virgin nis good but if your not a virgin theres nothing wrong with you so all in all, no

Answer 17

I hope they do , im 16 and still a virgin which i'm proud of, good question though, I was going to ask this. always wanted to see what guys prefered  

Answer 18

i love virgins becuz its tighter

Answer 19

Yes because I don't believe in premarital s*x and it makes s*x sorta better after marriage if we both are virgins!

Answer 20

yes.  that way we will both be nervous and we can share the experience together!!  We will both find out together, if he is also a virgin!!  Also makes me believe that the woman is waiting for the right moment.  She is not going out night after night, looking for her prey!  She wants to have that one man that will be with her and treat her with respect.  Personally, I do believe that one man can love and be happy with one woman, for the rest of their lives!!  I prefer the long-lasting happy marriage instead of the "fast food tecnique" of taking anything you want, over and over and over!!  

Answer 21

I'm 18, guy, virgin.

I wouldn't really care, as long as she doesn't have any diseases, you kno....

But I would prefer a virgin just because I'm the #1 guy, lol it doesnt really matter for me.

BUT if she is like 20 years old and has been with 20 guys, then I wouldnt want to deal with her....