GUYS!!!! plssss help answer!!! how would you get your ex gf back?

Question

ok, i'm just a little confused bcos i'm getting mixed signals from my ex. he knows he messed up so i feel like he doesnt know how to approach me...

background: he initiated the break up by avoiding/ignoring me!!!

i still care but he has this "pride" in him that he might be afraid of being rejected!!!!

he suddenly sent me a message on myspace...just checking on me and some other signals..

how would you get this kinda ex(me) back when you know you did her wrong and it's been 6 months already.....you are also afraid of being rejected and insulted..?????

I just want to know if the signals i'm getting are right...or if he's just tryna be my friend....it's confusing...

plssss answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

just ask. been through it. But I moved on with another guy and the guy still likes me.  

Answer 2

Just ask him if he has feelings left over for you. If I liked my ex-gf...If she asked I would probably say that I kind of do. Just ask him how he feels, and if he wants to try again.

Answer 3

you should ask him if those signals you are reading are correct, thats the best way, or you may be reading them wrong

Answer 4

6 months is good amount of time to refocus on a potential relationship.  So if he messed up, and really wants to get back together with you, he should put his pride aside and be straight with you.  If he's not willing to do that, he's not worth it!  The only thing worse than being rejected by the "right" person is never taking the shot in the first place.  He's on the clock.  Invite him to some easy, hang-out social events and see if he opens up.  If not, move on!  

Answer 5

I Think Talking Is The Best Thing To Do!

    ~~Victor Hugo~~

Answer 6

I think he wanted yuu back and to do that he needs to become friends with yuu first.

Soo i think thats his game.

PipPip

GoodLuck

x

Answer 7

Depends on what kind of guy he is...

If he's a sweet kinda guy... tell him your sorry and mean it.. get him a little gift and just be generally nice :)

If he's a boy's boy... maybe show off the good's a little?

Answer 8

You haven't actually identified what signals you're getting, just that he is afraid of being rejected. What are the "signals" you think he's giving to you besides checking on you?

Answer 9

Try and stay friends without being there 24 hrs a day. Be there when she needs help.

Answer 10

By going and begging for mercy and say how stupid you were. Then if things work out then french kiss

Answer 11

Call him and ask him yourself...its the only way to get the RIGHT signal. Good luck!

Answer 12

need  2 sit with him and clear ur mind ,invite him for coffee dont say 2 him why u inviting him for .and see where you stand

Answer 13

I also have pride to.  I would be afraid of rejection.  If he is checking back in on you, he wants you trust me.  I was in this situation before.