g*y/bi girls..how the h**l do u deal with it?

Question

theres a girl i cant stop thinking about ..i get such mixed signals from her and it hurts like h**l. one minute shes telling me about a boy she likes and the next we are cuddling in her bed, kissing and she looks me right in the eye and tells me she loves me. im 18, supposedly known as "straight" and the girl i like is my closest friend in my group of friends. im sure this happened to lots of other people and i would really appreciate your opinions!

Answer 1

wow.. that's awesome..

well, that's my opinion..

go0dluck to both of ya?

Answer 2

ok im no expert at this but i do know some things that girls try on guys they like but are unsure if they like them back or dont want to be the fist one to make a move

- she could have been trying to make you jealous by talking about a guy she "likes" to get a reaction out of you

- or talk about the guy she likes and actually meaning you

thats all i can think of for now

oh and its not unusual to fall for a friend i did i just havn't figged out what to do about it yet (i dont wanna ruin a friendship)

Answer 3

Hmmm thats a tuff one I think I would just be striaght with her I dont mean in a hetro straight way I mean I think you should just say look I really like you I have feelings for you and with you telling me you love me in what way do you mean it because Im unsure of how you mean it.

Answer 4

Forget labels, this young lady is obviously as unsure about the situation as you are. Why don't you try experimenting with her a little?

Clearly she doesn't seem down on the idea, and maybe you have found someone who can be that special one.

There certainly may be boys catching her eye, but from what you say, you are the one making it to her bed. If it feels right let yourself go and see what happens, and if you haven't shown any response in the past, join in and enjoy, as clearly you don't dislike the idea.

Love is a strange thing, we don't know when, or where, or with who it's going to strike, but when it does it feels so good.

Mike t.

Answer 5

That's the thing about women, honey!  She's probably as confused as you are which is why she's blowing hot and cold.  If she's your friend you might need to get her on her own and tell her she's driving you crazy.  If you like her, go for it.  If you're sure you're straight, stop the in-bed cuddling and kissing, it gives her mixed signals too!  I've been there, it does get less confusing, you just have to work out what you want.

Answer 6

hmm i get that sometimes, and that's with the girl i;m going out with lol. Just ask her straight out whether she wants to be with you or not. Then you can either ignore any advances she makes or point out that you feel uncomfortable when she's eyeing up others. it'll make your life a lot easier lol