g*y masculines? have you ever confessed your sexuality to someone and he or she said you don't look a g*y?

Question

to what person did you confess your feelings? and why? how your came out? with your parents? how do you like your boyfriends? and friends? dont you feel because people think g**s are effeminate? you do like them as friends or boyfriends the g**s who are effeminate?

Answer 1

Everyone knew I was g*y. When you're g*y and on the football team, other people know about it.

Answer 2

Yes, I came out to one of my L*****n friends. She commented on how hot one of my female friends was. I replied "I guess, if you are into that." Then she asked what kind of girl I liked, to which I replied that I am not into girls. She was totally surprised and commented how she never would have guessed that I was g*y! lol. I had known her for four years before this happened.  

Answer 3

to the best girl ive ever met,she is one of my best friends,i met her at college last year around september or october...she is pretty cute and very friendly and very funny,haha,and suddenly we were talking about stupid nonsense stuff,like usual,and we were all laughing,and she joked about telling me "are you g*y alex?cause if you are,i dont care,you are still a very cool person and i support you as much as i can,ok?" and she laughed her *** out,then i was like IM NOT g*y!...and i told her...BUT...then i wrote in her notebook "i go both ways" and she stared at me with a big smile and mouth wide opened,then she told me to swear it,and i did,and she told me she felt like that too,but i think she was just curious,casue she is really into guys....anyway,i came out to her because i found her such a good friend,i like artistic boyfriends,specially if they're photographers/musicians/writers/painters etc...i am artistic too...my parents have an idea and they told me i was going to h**l if i continued doing so,i like good original friends,not the ones who drive their minds by other and by fashions.and NO,i dont like queenies or drama queens,i mean,please,they are rude and very awkward....and i am masculine cause i am bi...

Answer 4

My mother and 2 friends (who were girls) didn't question me, but everybody else I told either thought I was joking at first or asked me if I was sure.

I know effeminate straight guys and masculine g*y guys, and don't think it makes a difference.

Answer 5

I came out to my friends first, they kinda knew and so did my Mom, I think my Dad knew but he was in denial. He told me he didn't think I was g*y at first and thought I was joking. But as time passed he accepted me as his son.

I like my girlfriends just like my good friends, and I have some guyfriends I care about too, but they're real straight so I can only think about them that way. xP lol, I love my boyfriend a lot. <33 When I first see a guy, I don't see them as a possible lover until I know they're g*y. xD But that's only when I'm not with anyone~~.

I've had crushes on straight guys though, but I know they're always gonna be one-sided... oh well.

Answer 6

my own mother told me i cant be g*y because my voice isnt high pitched and i dont like interior design ooo that annoyed me.... were on a bit better terms now but it took about 6 months to convince her totally...