Gemini??? What??? What's his problem? lol

Question

So last night I received about 50 text messages from a Gemini guy that I haven't talked to for about a year. I met him the same day I decided to end my two year relationship. When I told him my situation he revealed that he had just broken it off with his gf for 4 years. We got along great, wen out to fancy dinners and stuff. After two weeks he asked me to have dinner with his parents. Then a week later he texted me that his grandma was sick and he had to leave town for a few days to which I replied "good luck with your girlfriend, 4 years is a long time, I hope you guys can make it work" He laughed and asked how I knew. lol, like I'm an idiot or something.

So anyways I forgot all about him until last night he started sending me texts, saying that he can't stop thinking about me that I can't be mad at him before I hear him out, how much he likes me and he really needs to see me and I should give him a chance, blah blah blah. First I didn't even know who it was since I didn't keep his number, and I'm not really mad, I just don't really care and I don't want to play those games.

Just want opinions on the situation.

Does this Gemini think that this Scorpio girl is dumb? What is the best way to deal with situation? (I forgot to mention that he's crazy and he owns a gun that he showed me, which of course freaked me out, and some other crazy things that I don't want to p**s him off) I just want to let him down easy, and I'm not really good at those dating games.

Thanks for all the input and opinions!

Answer 1

Where's Ryan?  I know he would be able to give you a good answer.

My feeling is that it didn't work out with the gf, and he is regretting letting you go - as well he should.  No, he doesn't think you are dumb, but he doesn't realize that you have too much self-respect and the feeling is not mutual.

So, my advice for letting him down, after the freaky things you mentioned about the gun and etc., I would simply say to him that you are not available as you are interested in someone else (I'm sure you are, right?) and much too focused on your career goals to give this relationship another go.  

Good luck.

Answer 2

Once bitten twice shy................just tell him you're not interested.........

Answer 3

Too bad Ryan is too far away you could just knock on his door for advice. Wouldn't that be nice. I haven't seen him around on YA lately. However, I haven't seen a lot of people. They seem to be boycotting. Sad, I want them to come back. You know what is funny. There is a post that said "Once bitten, twice shy" Ryan gave me the same advice once. What a trip.

As far as your Gemini, I would forget about him. He sounds creepy to me. If you want I could tell him. Lol. You are a great person and beautiful girl. I'm sure that the right one will come along. As far as all these wanna be's. Well, your a Scorpio. Tell him what the deal is! Remember, I'm not too far if you need to reinforcements. (smile)

Answer 4

Ryan's on a Y!A sabbatical, but I'll star the question, and you should e mail it to him.

As far as the Gemini goes, there are two things I've noticed:

1. They always want what they don't have.

2. They have a very short attention span.

I'd say just ignore the texts and he should leave you alone before too long. If he doesn't, well there's always reporting him to the authorities for harassment or stalking or something like that.  

Answer 5

I'd say typical Gemini behavior!  I'd just ignore the text messages or perhaps even get my number changed!  Be safe!

Answer 6

LOL, Gemini male is completely out of his league when he attempts to spin tales, tell half truths, or outright lies to a Scorpio. ;)  He's lonely and seeking attention.  Since he blew you off and lied to you, I know that you're smart enough to see through his attempts to draw you back in.  He likes you soooo much and feels terrible about his dishonesty, which is why it took him a whole year to realize it? Hmmm....sounds suspicious to me too.  Ignore him. Don't play games. I dated a Gemini that sounds a lot like him. He owned a gun as well, and was an extreme player. Constantly lying and blowing me off until I didn't want anything more to do with him and then he attempted to draw me back in. There is no letting him down gently. If you ignore him long enough, he will go away.  Just be patient and let him blow up your phone until someone else appeals to him.  You're above him and his nonsense. Don't waste your time or energy.  Of course, you COULD change your cell number and avoid him altogether. I'm sure your friends and family would understand.

Answer 7

I THINK hes a typical gemini! cant make up his mind!! dont go w/ him he's just going to break ur heart agaiN! geminis are attention grabbers so this is what he's doing 2 u!

Answer 8

geminis' loves playing mind games ..i should know i'm a gemini!! we're so good at it.. but  i believe his in love with you, (he send you 50 text messages) just let him get what he has to say out in the opening and then you can respond afterwards! don't leave him hanging!