Gender? - can you answer this question?

Question

I'm a boy teenager and want to be more like a girl. i really really like girls clothes and things and want to learn to be more like a girl. sometimes i 'm even misstaken as a girl cuz i been told my face is so girly.

How can i learn and what can i do to be more of a girl?

Answer 1

You could start:

i) gossiping behind peoples backs

ii) changing your mind all the time

iii) to consider shopping to be the most important thing in life

iv) not being able to tell your right from your left

v) crtiticising the appearance of all other girls

Answer 2

heck just buy the girl clothes! :]

Answer 3

A little more compassionate and understanding answer might be...

In hindu and buddhism, it is widely held belief that we are all a different combination of masculine and feminine traits.

In fact the original meaning of the yin/yan symbol is light and dark... masculline and feminine (Shiva and Shakti in Tantrism). it represents the individual as well as the innermost parts of all of us.

I am a straight man with a bit more feminine mentality and appearance than the Marlboro man. :) It has taken me 42 years to understand why. And, it is a good thing. My girlfriend is a bit more masculine than is normally accepted. She too is a beautiful spirit. And we bond well. It is a perfect balance.

In short, you can be a straight (or not) man with a sensitive nature and appearance who just needs to find a partner who balances the feminine excess that you may see in yourself. (Someone who appreciates what you ARE without trying to change it)

Whatever you decide your path is, don't let society dictate where you "belong". Search your own spirtuality first and you may find that you are not too girly at all. You just need to decide how your own light is to be expressed... and with who.

OH, and also... as a teenager, you may be very surprised to find out how things change in the next few years... Give it time. It seems you have some.

Best of Fortunes to you

Answer 4

Be a transvestite.

Or start by changing your avatar to looking like a girl that's what I would do hun

AND CHANGE YOUR NAME TO BETTY

Answer 5

You don't have to be classified as a male or female, I am an intersexual and I live a very productive life indeed. I wear both male and female clothing, eye makeup, I am a lead guitarist in an 80's Metal band. I have had girlfriends who think my style is very attractive, but essentially the only person I am pleasing is myself.

Answer 6

be a s*x camelion can change whenever u want to : )

Answer 7

Wear whatever makes you most comfortable, whatever makes you feel who you really are.  Whatever makes you happy.  It's far better to be yourself than to worry about what others think.  If you don't mind being mistaken for a girl, then that's really okay too.

There are books in bookstores that'll teach you how to apply your makeup and stuff. There are even effeminate clothing for guys as well.  If there's a g*y district in the town where you live, go check them out. Yeah, i know, not all transgendered guys are g*y, I know that. But that's just a suggestion.

Best of luck to you. :-) Take care.

Answer 8

make up ..

Answer 9

just be a guy you were born a guy so stay a guy. you have way to much time on you hands

Answer 10

Be a boy!

But you could be a transvestite okay..

Answer 11

uhmm.. read girl magazines??

cosmogirl, seventeen, and teen vogue?

Answer 12

erm, do 'girl' stuff. like.. urm.... idk.

face mask ;)

make up.

girls clothes - but from your other questions i guess you already do that.

erm...

duno really. i hate to say which activites are for girls and which are for boys. because they're for everyone.

Answer 13

look for a japanese magazine called GOTHIC AND LOLITA

Or KERA these books will help you learn how to makeup a guy in girl.. em.. i mean they will teach you how to put on make up and stuff.. hope that turns out to be your future career. but if you WANT to be a girl then you need some operations to achieve it.

but if you just like to look like a girl.. thats normal

Answer 14

girls are very stuck up

Answer 15

Watch a lot of Chris Crocker videos on youtube.

Answer 16

Well maybe you should start to slowly change like a girl. Start putting on make up. Not too much, though. Just alittle. (: Maybe do your nails if you havn't already, also. Just the little things that girls do.

Like, do you WANT to be a girl or just maybe be alittle more femmine?

Maybe you can wear some girl jeans, also! ^-^

I hope I helped you atleast alittle. (:

Answer 17

Baby boy..be who you wanna be...if you wanna wear girls clothing then wear it...if you wanna wear makeup wear it..if you wanna mix up elements of girls and boys clothing do so!

im always wearing men's clothing ( i wear womens too) but for comfort i usually go for mens. :P

but..if you are not really used to wearing makeup...then get some help..look up some information on the internet. ask a tolerant female friend for some tips.

but a warning...and i am only saying this because ppl can be very mean...expect to be made fun of at first.  but dont let that get you down...keep experimenting till you find what you like.  ppl will eventually just quit really paying attention anyhow..

i got gaped at alot when i first dyed my hair black...and it was just black! heck ive been doing that now since i was 16..and im nearly 30 now!

do what makes YOU happy!

Answer 18

fashion and teen magizenes!!!or girly websites