General Questions bout this birth control?

Question

I work overseas and i will be going hm in a few days and i can not wait but i just got off the phone with my wife and she told me that the whole while i am down there she wants to have s*x which i don't have no problem with that at all. She told me that I would be using condoms while i am having s*x with her because she don't want me to leave any packages (kids) and she is taking a new birth control. i used condoms on her once or twice but that was a long time ago but i have not had s*x for 5 going 6 months so could somebody tell me if there is something going on or is this normal.

Answer 1

She figures you've been cheating since you were oversea's and does not want to catch anything. Wear it while at home then cheat on her once you are back where you came from.

Answer 2

She has a boyfriend dude expecially if she is already taking birth control.   Or she thinks you have been with other women and she wants to be safe.  But I say boyfriend....

Answer 3

Uh you use condoms and birth control when you don't want to get pregnant.  Three kids is enough of a litter for most human beings.

I really hope there is no rocket science going on where you work overseas.

Answer 4

it sounds like she don't trust you so she wants to be safe about it with out hurting your feelings.ok then go get your self fixed it will only take  a day and you would heal faster.then you can get your grove on that same week  

Answer 5

wow.. I never heard man married still use condoms.with wife... LOL.. hahahhahha.. thks for the laughing...

all you have to do is be careful.. LOL.. funnnnnnnny.  

Answer 6

When you start a new birth control it is best to use alternative methods (such as condoms) for the first 60 days. That is because it takes that long for the birth control to get fully into the system. So, no she is not jerking your chain.

Answer 7

Sounds like she's trying to make it clear she doesn't want to make anymore babies right now.  Use the condoms, latex ones with spermicidal on them, that way you get twice the protection.  She also is probably concerned that you've been dipping the stick while overseas and doesn't want to catch anything.  If I were you go get tested and bring her the results, just to reassure her.

Hard to read anything else into it.  Maybe you are just a little paranoid because of the time separated from her?

Answer 8

A wife who calls children packages is insulting.  I would refuse to see her.

Answer 9

i bet there is a boy freind hanging around 6mo huh I bet shes been porked more times than a dirty needle

Answer 10

No type of birth control is 100% except abstinence and you have already said that is out.  Using condoms is a good supplement to not having any children waiting in the wings.  It is difficult to have and raise children on your own when your spouse is elsewhere in the world.  Children need to have both parents around and there is nothing wrong with wanting to make sure she doesn't get pregnant if it is not in the plans.  Especially if you will leaving the country again shortly.  Life is more difficult for a single mother even if she is married and the husband working off-site.

If you don't want any more children then one of you should get fixed.  Then you don't have to worry about any more children.

Answer 11

So, youre wondering what her real motives are when she says she wants to use condoms and doesnt want any more children? WTF? No offence but that is the most retarded thing Ive heard all day.