I have been married for 5.5 years and just found out my ovary was enlarged. I told my husband and discovered that he has had genital warts for 5 years (that he knows of) and never once told me. He only did now because he read they can lead to cervical cancer.
I have never tested positive for the HPV virus and never realized he had them. I noticed them before but he told me they were moles. I feel like a fool and am very upset about my marriage. He either A) was cheating on me so did not tell me or B) was so unconcerned about my health, and the health of our children during labor, he just saw no reason to tell me.
The worst I think is that he said he assumed I had them too, and gave them to him, so he assumed there was no reason we should talk about it. He really thinks I would do that and he is that person, not me! This says so much about our marriage and I am so upset I could puke.
Any advice on how to get through this? And is it even possible for one spouse to have them and the other one to not?
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