Gettign OVER someone ?

Question

HOW DO YOU get over someone that you really like and you cant liek move on and you dont know if they still like you are not hmmm.....

Answer 1

well i have a meathod. ive used it once b4. its horribly brutal, but it worked within 12 hours for me.

1) find your yearbook

2) stare at the picture of someone who you think is horribly ugly until you have their face perfectly memorized

3) whenever your crushes face pops into ur head, replace it with the ugmos.

its not pretty, its not nice, but it WORKS.

Answer 2

If you really want to get over them, remember why it didn't work out or why it won't work out. Keep yourself busy with things you like to do, I've been where you are, and it is extremely hard, give yourself maybe one or two days to sulk with ice cream and chick flicks where you can yell at the screen that love does not exist. But after that find something rather than someone that you love that you can occupy your time with and eventually out of the blue that person will just pop into your life...but until then find things that make you happy you don't necessarily need somebody else to make you happy.

Answer 3

depending on how long you have been with them it could be very hard to move on. The only things it takes is time. Some people do the rebound thing. Go find someone else to occupy your time. If thats not your thing then try to become more involved with your family. Start going grociery shoppign with your mom, take your sister to the movies, have a movie night.. anything to keep your mind away from it for a while, until you have had time to heal.  

Answer 4

Go find someone else to be with and see if they get jealous.

Answer 5

It's going to be very, very hard.

but you're just going to have to deal with that fact

and face it.

you have to cut this person off for some time, it may be a very long time too,

until you truly know what you want and know that you can handle seeing them again.

and if you truly want to know if they still like you or not real badly

then you'd just have to swallow your pride and go do it,

face your problems. Such things will become alot

easier if you use opportunities like these to face your fears.

It's best to get their reaction and know for sure from them

instead of wondering what could have been the rest of your life

or for a very long time. Youve only got one life to live,

what's the worst that could happen?

Answer 6

just keep yourself busy, and after a while you'll forget they even exist.

Answer 7

I really wish i knew, but i'm trying this and it's working so far. tell them you don't like them and see how they react. if it's a negative attitude then you know your doing something right :). then make a list, it doesn't have to be all bad, but do a positive and negative side. all the positives about him, and alll the negatives. you'll slowly see that all the negatives aren't worth fighting for him.

Answer 8

i stay away from, him, i crushed on a guy for over 2 years and it still troubles me to see him, even though i know it will never be, just erase him from your mind and scope out new guys...lol...

         good luck girlie!!!

Answer 9

Babe, the best thing to do is ask them if they still are into you. If you find out they arent, most likely you will find yourself loosing interest quite fast. :)

Answer 10

I'm going to da same thing too, and i have no idea what to do. But what i could tell you is maybe you still have a chance, it's not bad if you go and talk to him.

Answer 11

stop thinking about them, and move on, like someone else

Answer 12

Find another person to fall in love with. There are millions of potential mates out there probably better than this person. Freaking talk to this person and clear the air with them if you still think that they like you.

Answer 13

You have to get rid of all of your pictures with him and delete his number first. After that, you HAVE to KEEP BUSY. Go hang out w/ ure friends every night..just do something to keep your mind off of him. And whatever you do..even if you get the urge to...don't call him!! I know it is hard, but it's for the best.

Answer 14

build a bridge and push him off easy:)

haha hope i helped.

ily.