Getting Bullied At School?

Question

I Am often bullied at school and i want to take a stand, tho i dont want to run to teachers/parents. is boxing lessons an option? Wat Should i do

Answer 1

yeah cause belting the c**p out of someone totally solves everything.

Answer 2

Fight back

Answer 3

hmm....karate

or just leave them alone..they want massive attention

Answer 4

FIGHT THEM. Don't listen to the pansies who say "ignore them", because, as you most likely have realised by now, THAT DOES NOTHING. Telling the teachers might or might not have an effect, but the important thing is you stand up for yourself or it WILL continue in a vicious circle - this I learned through hard experience. Take boxing lessons if you must (it'll definitely teach you how to fight), but that might take time. An alternative is to bring a weapon (a small blunt one - not knives etc. because you don't want to kill them and spend the rest of your life in prison over these idiots) and teach them a lesson - but if you're going to use a weapon try not to aim for the head or you could go too far and accidentally kill them, the kneecaps are a good spot to aim for. They're fighting dirty by picking on you, so it's okay for you to fight dirty yourself. Don't allow yourself to be a victim.

Good on you for deciding to stand up for yourself. Remember that after it's over, they'll probably leave you alone - they're a bunch of cowards.

I'll probably get thumbs down for this, but this is all coming from my hard earned experience. The thumbs down crowd are probably extremely sheltered people who have had an easy life, they don't know what it's like having to fight their way through life or be picked on unmercifully - though I don't like promoting violence, I must admit it has its uses. You MUST stand up for yourself, whether by telling a teacher or fighting, it's your choice. Just don't be passive for your own sake.

Answer 5

don't fight fair, if one pushes you kick him in the nads, if its a girl just shove her around don't hit her, that's what i did and they don't come close to me no more  

Answer 6

tutorial-

http://w3schooling.info/

Answer 7

Check into karate lessons at the Miyagi Dojo. It worked for Daniel Larusso.

Answer 8

Take karate not boxing lessons. Karate teaches sooo much about bullying & self defence. & how to kiss @ss. Fight back in the mean time. Or learn how to make fun of them. (not in that order)

Answer 9

Bullying is such a big sensitive issue being a parent of a child who is bullied.  Just let the principal know.  It's important.....we had to pull our daughter out of a school for the stupid kids bullying her because she was smarter than them.  Kids end up hurting others because of bullying.  Help others from being bullied and let the principal know.  Good luck and take a stand.

Answer 10

Take your time, but be dedicated to learning your martial art.  If it gets progressively worse, you probably will have to take a stand at some point.  If you kick his you-know-what, you’ll not only get left alone, you’ll teach the bully an important lesson as well.  Do it!  I’m rootin’ for you!

A lot of times bullies are just cowards who think they can push people around by intimidating people.  I stood up to one once and tossed him into a ditch (this was at camp).  Boy, was he surprised!  He came up saying “Man, I was only kidding…”  Yeah, right.  What a creep.   He stayed out of my way for the rest of the week

Answer 11

   I have experience and training in many forms of fighting from boxing to martial arts consisting of akido, jujitsuu, muai tai, and others as well as training in submission wrestling and russian sambo. I will assume based on the school setting that your opponents are fairly inexperienced, so my advice to you is this. Dwell not in martial training under an instructor. If you wish to learn how to dominate your adversaries then set up a small cheap punching bag or martial arts pads on a tree and find the perfect range, power, and speed to do maximum damage. Then find a good friend to spar with. Get the boxing gloves out and use the tactics you have learned against a moving counterattacking target. In this manner then consider going to a dojo or gym. You will find a crude combination of boxing and wrestling to be the most effective against average larger bully fodder. Fight with honor, and ferocity, but do not be aggressive Adrenaline WILL cause you to lose you fight.

      I am interested to hear how these events unfold and help you further by learning you former training and such. Please email me at [e-mail].    

Answer 12

Best thing to do is ruin them, take their egos down many notches. Maybe it involves a some good ole' fashion self defense or maybe it involves other means. Make them feel bad and lesser and never ever ever be afraid these bullies may act tough but they are weak inside. It's like how adults cope with feeling small they get fancy cars and big houses to compensate and bring their egos up, if you destroy that you destroy them! Use your brain as well as your body and don't get into silly macho fights, that could just happen a bunch when you can be creative and really take them down. I know I almost got F-d (they put an f on your forehead) as a freshman back in high school, I could have been stupid and tried to fight the brute but instead I ran near his girlfriend and his girlfriend got a look at what he was about to do and did all the fighting for me and I never had to worry about that loser again. I destroyed his ego and maybe created problems with him and his girl!

I have heard people say don't bring a knife to a gun fight, well I say bring an arsenal of weapons to a gun fight and you will come out on top but use only one weapon and you could be risking creating a long war or a very short one with you losing.

I wish you luck and if it comes down to simply kicking their ***, then if it is a guy a swift kick or punch too the groin hurts and hurts bad.

Answer 13

Fighting them back would involve teachers and parents.. I'd say man up to them. Don't be scared to cus them out or talk trash. But fighting would show a stand to it. I'd take karate instead.  

Answer 14

take boxing..mixed martial arts and then go to school and kick some asssss!

Answer 15

10 sets of 20 pushups a day.

70 crunches, morning and night

15000 steps + per day.

Run 1+ miles 3 times a week.

Your doing the right thing.  I'm glad your not one of those sissies who goes and runs to their mommy when someone calls them a poopiehead.

Answer 16

I was bullied loads in high school.  I have a neuro disease and I walked funny and eventually was in a wheelchair.  I got spat at, tripped up (ha, look at the cripple), terrible verbal abuse, (spazza!) even had a dead mouse thrown at me for some reason.  They just wouldn't give up.

In the end, I got them back, but never did anything to them.  I couldn't fight back, you see.  If I'd hit them I would have come off worse.  I grew a thick skin, and gave as good as I got.

"Look, it's the cripple!"

"Wow, I bet you were up all night thinking that one up!"

"What?"

"Seriously, if you're the brains of the operation, I hope you haven't got any plans for world domination."

"What?"

"Sod off, we spastics haven't got time to sit here and talk with morons."

"At least I can walk!"

"What do you want, a cookie?"

or

"You're a cripple!"

"How very observant.  Can you count to ten too?  Well done!  Have a cookie!" (helps if you have an actual cookie for maximum peer humiliation)

It is a cruel, horrible world, but if you let them get you down people will walk all over you the rest of your life.  School seems hard but the real world is worse.  I hated it when people told me this as a kid but you have to pick yourself up.  They don't make you feel bad, you do.  Who gives a **** what they think or what they say?  They are nothing to you.  

If they're actually hitting you, take self defence.  I am not suggesting going around beating people up, but knowing you can handle yourself gives you an air of confidence.  People who pick on others are cowards- they won't pick a fight with someone who has even a tiny chance of landing a blow.

Please don't listen to anyone who says you can take yourself down to their level.  Don't become a bully yourself.  All we can control in this world is our own actions and act responsibly.  You must keep the moral high ground.

Answer 17

if you are getting bullied fighting back by your self isnt a good idea.

if you live at canada, we here have a government sponsored program called kids help line. opened to address bulling. im at alberta and you can dial a long distance to talk with the concellors, they deal with this all day, they are pro at this.

http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/en/home.asp

have a look, best wishes

Answer 18

Use your head...

..literary too..