Getting divorced still good friends?

Question

my wife and i have decided to get a divorce, we both are agreeing that we dont need a lawyer we are willing to deal with all the splitting of properties, we are still going to be good friends but we are going different directions in our lifes. i was wondering if anyone can tell me any experiences of situations like this. We both still care about each other and we want to stay friends.

We just want to go on in our lifes, also can anyone tell us if it is fairly easy to get a divorce if there is no disputes about anything.

we dont have any kids and we have been married for almost two years. thanks

Answer 1

I did that with my ex but the circumstances were not good like yours.  We were friends w/benefits.  We had no children.  When he met another girl he wanted to marry I cut our ties.  It was never destined to be anyway.  If you can manage that's good, but make sure both of you are not doing this for some other reason, like friends w/benefits.  It will not work that way.  

Answer 2

my first husband and i divorced similarly with no kids - still friends today.  just remember that you two are splitting things, and to know that you may not get everything the way you want it, but if it's not THAT important, let it go because you sound like your friendship is more valuable.  you can do it and it can be nice and you can still be there for each other as you split - weird, but so do-able.  good luck!

Answer 3

We tried to to do the same thing but he came over one night during a storm and I got knocked up and we have been hapily living ever after with triplets.

Answer 4

Reba, All of Us? As for reality, I'm not sure.

Answer 5

Yes, it can happen. That is the way it should happen no matter what.