Getting made fun of for 2 years straight, what do I do??????

Question

Ok well im sorta absent minded, so sometimes I do some pretty stupid things and pepl keep making fun of me for it. like at first it was just a little joke, but after a few months (mostly the people I used to hang out with do it, cuz their around when I do stupid stuff) it got pretty serius and they just dont stop it and now about 2 years later its STILL GOING. I'v honestly tried just about everything, first i tried the old ignore them trick, thts worked good in the past, but after like 4 MONTHS they still did it, so then I tried laughing along with them to see wat would happen, and then when that didnt happen I tried to get really mad at them and just say '**** off' every time they did it, and that didnt work either!!! I cant just abandon them because the one best friend that i have who doesnt still make fun of me hangs out with them, and besides him and 'the gang' i dont really hav any other friends, so its either make no human contact or be made fun of... but its weird its not like your average 'teasing', cuz they dont say anything directly to me, they say it to each other, like 'he did this', or 'haha he's a r****d' and well I think they just make jokes to each other about it, they dont really care how i react, as long as they make each other laugh they keep doing it... and they dont get bored becuz i keep doing stupid things AND I CANT HELP IT, its just the way I am... god schools starting in like a week and im scared tht its gonna happen all over again

Answer 1

Real friends would never treat you like this.  I know it's been happening a long time but give it a week or so and see how they are, if they are still really upsetting you talk to the one who doesn't make fun of you, and tell him/her how your feeling about what their doing to you, ask him/her for advice.  Or just tell them that you've had enough and tell them to stop.  If they don't leave them, go find people who love you the way you are.  Don't let them get you down!!   and never stop being yourself!

Answer 2

u dont have to take **** from people

if sumone is called a friend,he/she tells u ur shortcomings politely and in private so that u improve..not have fun at ur expense

and dont say u cant help being absent minded..sum of the worlds greatest inventors and scientists have been absent minded and plain eccentric

sum people r just too lost in their real thoughts to worry abt whats in or what out with the world around them

people dont call me absent minded but i have been called oldie at age 16 !. just becoz i wasnt like most guys whos chased girls and smoked pod..i was into academics and science big time

u must be having sum strengths..play to them and without fighting or shouting ..keep noticing the guys ..they must be having sum weaknesses..pay them back in class or in public

i had a friend who was bad enuff to try and act fresh with my sisters behind my back at my own place

one day in my class..among 64 kids..and with 8 girls present ,without naming him..i gave him my piece of mind..everyone knew i had 2 sisters  and they also knew who i was talkign abt

the guy never dared come to me again

Answer 3

I don't know what to tell you, I'm the same way sometimes, and I'm reminded of the stupid things I do pretty often. Everyone is absent minded sometimes, so just accept the stupid things you've done and don't worry about it, when they bring it up just be like haha yeah I know whatever. Try to pay attention more often and don't do so many stupid things....and you can help it.

another thing is, prove your intelligence, do good in school maybe, or learn some politics, but don't show it off and make random points spontaneously, youll just look stupid, only use it when it's appropriate, you'll get some respect. All I can say is put the past behind you, and trust me youll friends will let it go.

don't listen to the people who tell you not to talk to them. people make fun of people for being stupid, that's the way it is. If you stop talking to them, youll just be a puss, unless they do other things that qualifie them as not being your friend. And you would know if their not your friends, in that case ditch them. If their making fun of your absentminded-ness evan if it's often- as long as it's in good taste don't worry about it. But you might just be that one friend that gets ripped on more often, you might have to deal with.

Answer 4

What are you doing to make them tease you?Just try to avoid them at all costs or make jokes back on them...Also to keep you going have this in your mind that karmas a ***** and theyll get what they deserve 100 times worse.Good Luck.

Answer 5

The only thing you can do is laugh when they do.  If you can learn to have fun with them then it won't be making fun of you, it will be friends laughing together.  Don't take what people say personally just laugh about it.  Trust me, this is the only way to win.

Answer 6

Make of fun them too and laugh about it. If they say anything about you making fun of them, bring up the times they have made fun of you.  

Answer 7

i would probably stop talking to them for a few weeks. i mean, you can still make contact with humans, but not them. maybe invite the nice kid to hang out. so then, when they start asking you whats up and why your not hanging out with them, tell them what you think. tell them that you dont want friends who make fun of you, and dont care about when you tell them to stop. tell them you dont want to be friends with any of them anymore, and they will realize that they should stop. if theyre good friends at all, theyll stop. but you have to give it time, show them your serious, because if they dont believe you, theyll keep treating you the same.

Answer 8

First of all, relax man, everything is going to be fine.  I had that problem a lot when I was in 6th grade.  I was a hyper, unsocial kid that a lot of people made fun of because I didn't stand up for myself.  In 7th grade that all changed when I ended up yelling at my friends who started the whole thing, telling them off, and explaining that I don't need them.  It kind of ended there.  I still had a few friends after that, and after a while, we started our own little "gang", and soon enough, guess who was the leader of the group?  Me.  Becuase I stood up for myself, everyone respected me.  It takes someone brave to stand up for their friends, but someone braver to stand up for themself.  Please take my advice, they are not your friends if they make fun of you.  I know that there are people out there who like you for who you are, so give up the useless people you call "friends" and find some real ones.  And relax, school is going to be fine.  I started to freak out about the smae thing when I was going into 7th grade, and now here I am, an 8th grader, ruling the school, and hangin' with real friends.  Please listen to me, relax, and make some real friends.  Glad I could help. :)

From a real friend,

Jennie P

Answer 9

Dont worry kid,, you will soon grow out of your stupid phase.  

Answer 10

sometimes people are just jerks, so you go up and ask them politely:  "don't you guys have anything better to do?/ you guys have got to grow up!"  or you can go along with it and make everyone laugh.  It's your choice.

Answer 11

Get out and make new friends.  Stop getting treated like c**p simply because you don't want to be alone.  You can still see your best friend without hanging out with the other mean people...if he's a good friend, he'll understand too.  Try devoting your time to a hobby or joining a club of some sort. You'll meet new people who share your interests and have new friends WHO ACTUALLY RESPECT you in no time!!