...and the Mother of the groom is being a bit outrageous. We live in CA and the wedding is in CO. She has a fear of flying and doesn't think she can get to her sons wedding. We are having the wedding in CO because that is where I am from and where my family lives; they don't have the money to take time off and fly to CA. So instead of having a wedding in CA where the only people from my side would be my parents, the Groom and I decided that his family can afford to make the trip. This was decided about 8 months ago when I started seriously planning the wedding. His mother told us that she is "uncomfortable with flying" and said she would rather give us a check than rattle her nerves and fly. I told her "I would rather have the gift of you being there to meet my family than money". Last night she was in a horrid mood and attacked us for having the wedding "so far away knowing she can't come" We were totally caught off guard and tried to tell her that we want her there and that it would be humiliating for the groom when the mother son dance comes. She got overly emotional and angry and left the room leaving the groom and I with her husband who was trying to let both sides be seen. We talked with him and told him to try to get her to either agree to drive (it's only a 17 hour drive) or get some medication to fly.
Has anyone ever had an issue like this? What can I do? I have already sent the invtitations, bought the dress, and booked the place. The Groom and I are now seriously considering calling the whole thing off and just going to city hall to sign the papers because our wedding is such a bother. I now feel completely unwelcome in the house (we are still living with the parents) and I feel like I just want to move back home to Colorado.
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