Getting married soon but .....?

Question

Getting married pretty soon and i love him to bits but the thing is I saw my ex couple of weeks ago and kinda fancied him again.went out for a few drinks and had an amazing time.(and yes my fiance knew about it) My future husband is the only man i have ever slept with but has anyone been in the same situation and what does this mean?

Answer 1

I would say it means you are not ready, as I think

1. You would of not been interested in going out with an ex for any reason and especially when you should be so into your impending wedding!

2. The fact that you did and did not have ANY feelings of "yeah I am getting married to the man I love and am so glad you are an ex" indicate to me that you are totally NOT ready!

3.The fact you posted this question in the first place!

*however, fair play to you for telling your fiance that you had gone out with him, that is a massive plus in your relationship as honsty is so so important! Maybe you are just not ready yet?

Good luck

Answer 2

The first commenter hit the nail on the head.  You aren't ready.

Answer 3

You are just still having some old emotions over your ex.  It doesn't mean you still love him or want to be with him - think about the reasons why you broke up and why you are not marrying him, but your fiance.  Forget about the ex and concentrate on your new life with your fiance who trusts you so much to be cool with you going out with your ex.  

Answer 4

It means that you are not ready to commit to marriage.

Answer 5

First as you are going to be married so it is better to meet your opposit s*x friends in others company - never in alone. Before marriage s*x is not good in certain socities so it is better to avoid. You may be faithful but once if some suspecious came to ones mind than you may get in trouble. As your would be knows your ex and he has no problem than forget it and enjoy a new life.