Getting nervous about conceiving again.....Questions!!!?

Question

Well, my husband and I decided to try for our second child next month and I am getting nervous!!!! Our first born was a very pleasant surprise, as we were going to start trying later that year. Now, as we are nearing our date of trying for baby #2, I am starting to panic---I am so afraid of miscarrying. I am so afraid of major disabilities or my child not being born healthy. Don't get me wrong, i am very excited about possibly having baby #2, but I have all these thoughts running through my head. I am taking my vitamins every day, eating healthy and exercising. I am still overweight because of my first pregnancy and I drink a little caffein here and there. I do have PCOS and my dr. did say I many not conceive again and that having my first child was a miracle, but we are deciding to try anyway. Is there anything I can do to prevent miscarriage and anything I can do to assure my child is born healthy? Is there anything I can do about the PCOS? Any advice greatly appreciated!

Answer 1

Leave it in god's hands! Stop stressing... get plenty of rest eat healthy and take your vitamins. I have PCOS and was told by several doc's that I would never be able to have kids and we just found out that I am pregnant... miracles do happen. Relax and enjoy ttc.

Good luck & Bless you and your family

Answer 2

Take a chill pill;and relax

Answer 3

All you can do is what you are already doing. I wish you all the best.

Chances are you'll be fine.

Answer 4

hey. honestly worrying makes everything that much worse. i understand, i really do. i had gotten pregnant then at 35 weeks lost her. so when i found out i was pregnant the second time i was so nervous. i mean who wouldnt be? but you have nothing to fear. you are going to breeze through conception and pregnancy have a beautiful baby! just relax! its going to be ok!