Getting pregnant?

Question

me and my partner are going to be trying for a baby, we want the baby to be born on a special date (to us) when do i know to start trying for the baby at the right time. we want the baby to be born either the 30th october or the 31st. i know you cant have it on the perfect day because babys are late or early at times, but can any one help me judge rufley when to start conseving. i did a test and its telling me to be pregnant by the 24th january 2009 (next year) but when do we start trying to get pregnant around that time? it hasnt got to be dead on just around it.

Answer 1

Your goal seems sweet but a little unreasonable. Women don't often get pregnant the first time they try. It happens- but it's not that common. I recommend getting a book to help you better prepare. The Mother of all Pregnancy Books, or The Fastest Way To Get Pregnant Naturally. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Go to www.yourdays.com & register. It's a calendar that will tell you when to start trying, when your fertile, and when to start for a certain s*x.

Good Luck

Answer 3

honey you are not going to make the baby come out the 30th or the 31st unless you reach up and grab it out yourself sorry its just not going to happen that way

Answer 4

You wouldn't be able to do that unless you were about to ovulate on the 24th January, if you have already ovulated or are due on for instance then there wouldn't be any way to get them dates. Good luck and no pressure for baby then huh!

Answer 5

you should start at least 3 months before you want to become pregnant, if you and your hubby are both healthy it takes up to 6 months sometimes to conceive, so starting 3 months is a good bet, to learn more about how to time intercourse via calculating ovulation, and to ask doctors for free about this, try the website FertilityTies

good luck!

Answer 6

Well you can't have it your way! Next you will want it to be a boy or be left handed. It is a baby, you must learn that is is a person in it's own right, you can't dictate when it is born, what it will be like or how it will happen.

Planning ahead is one thing, just relax and let nature take it's course!

Pregnancy is a set number of days, however the sperm can live inside you for 3 days and so might not enter the egg on the day you think anyway!

Answer 7

Go to www.babycentre.co.uk

here you can work out your fertile times from your period dates/length and they normally list the dates for the next year as to when you'd be fertile and when the due date would be.  It's not really very realistic to plan for a particular day but you can try!