Getting pregnant with irregular cycle?

Question

Okay some people may tell me I might not be ovulating but my cycles are 35-42 days and I think I have ovulation pain but I'm not 100% sure. Hubby is in the army and deploying soon so we don't have much time to try before he leaves and want to get this right in the next two tries or when he comes home on R&R (this one is slightly more preferable).

I want to try BBT charting and I'm trying to use medhelp.org to chart other stuff. Besides the obvious is there anything I could do to possibly help? Maybe somehow to shorten my cycle?

Answer 1

i have been charting on fertilityfriend.com and i like their setup. baby dust to us both. when in doubt have s*x atleast every other day. do not get up for any reason after s*x and put a couple pillows under your hips to help give them a hill to roll down instead of just having to fight the straight swim. insert your finger inside you scrape around your cervix. if it seams like egg whites with very strechy then have sexas much as you can that is supposed to mean you are ovulating soon. i also have irregular cycles ranging from 28- 37 days. also dont use any lube even more important dont use any with sperm killing agents in it. and dont douch ( i cant spell ). have him take a warm shower not hot or cold before s*x that helps warm the sperm. when he is finishing have him not go back and forwth tell him to try and keep it in as far as he can to help give them a boost and also since if he pulls out after he starts to finish then sticks it back in that just makes sperm come out and not stay in ( think holding pudding in your hand and sticking something big in it, the goods start to squirt out ) good luck to you and me both