Getting rid of drama from my life?

Question

So, I recently just had enough with it. I am a military wife, and have the most drama I have ever seen. I do not even consider these girls GREAT friends, but I guess they were kinda sorta friends. Anyway, Ive been stressed lately and depressed. I don't care about a lot of things anymore, and to add it all in one of my friends feels the need to tell me every bad thing everyone says about me, but then hangs out with them like they are her best friend. Whatever. It just didn't sit right with me, so I deleted my myspace and made a new one. Little did I know that I was not sneaky enough. The girl that says all the bad stuff about me found it, cussed me out, and told me to stop causing so much drama. I was breif with her telling her that I was just tired of the drama, and too busy with other things.

Anyway, I don't think she knows that I know all the things that she has been saying about me, but I dont know if I should tell her because I really don't want to get in a huge fight.

SO, I was thinking of writing a very breif BLOG on my old myspace before I delete it and basically explain why I have been so weird and what my problem is. Then, at least they know. I will be nice, and simply explain it to them.

Is this a good idea, or do you think I am being immature and adding to it?

Answer 1

Blogging about it is only fueling the fire because it appears if you are just spreading gossip. If she attempts to contact you anymore, delete the message and don't respond.  

Answer 2

not exactly, because you could just have gone up to the girl and like said what you were feeling and such. Also you could have just talked about her behind her back. So you are not being immature, your actually being mature. And that so call friend isn't a good friend, because if she is hanging out with a person who clearly doesn't like you, she must be talking behind you back also.  

Answer 3

That would put a stop to any friendships, that's for sure. Just remember that you need to be able to back up anything you say in words. Once they have been typed, you cannot take them back

Answer 4

You are right to rid yourself of the drama.  It doesn't matter what they say about you, but you need to be happy within yourself.  It seems that the person telling you all the things that others say bad about you is only contributing to the drama.  It also contributes to you feeling down and upset.  A blog is a good thing since this will help you express yourself.  Then after that I would just let it go for good.  Don't respond to them or associate with them.  It is one thing that will keep the drama is after you say anything you keep responding.  Sometimes it is better to just state your piece and move on.

It can be lonely, but wouldn't you rather be alone and happy than unhappy with the drama in life?