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Question

I want to tell this girl who i see every day and have gotten to know over the past 2 yrs how much i like her. We've never gone out or anything, but i have very strong feelings for her. the thing hanging me up though, is how will things be if she doesnt feel the same way. I know there'll be some embarrasment right away, but what about in the long run? Will we become distant and uncomfortable around each other? Will she tell her friends (some of which are my friends) and spread it around that i told her, bringing me more embarrasment?

Answer 1

Dude, don't worry about "what if she won't like me" bull-c**p. It doesn't matter. All that matters is that you let her know how you feel. Trust me, what can happen if she does like you back far out-weighs what may happen if she doesn't. So just go for it and don't let anything hold you back!

Answer 2

I am exactly the same way, I'm deathly afraid that if I tell this guy I really like that it'll ruin our friendship and spread around making me look like a loser. but who cares right? its your life not theirs! if you like this person, than its your feelings and it shouldn't concern anyone else but you. and if this news does start to spread around just say, that its your life people and THEY need to get a life and start worrying about themselves instead of sabotaging your reputation. just try it. and I hope things go well.

good luck.

Answer 3

I think you are right she will probably reject you and laugh at you behind your back with all of her friends. Don't take that chance! You should just keep all of your feelings inside so you never have a chance to get hurt. You will probably end up alone with no friends but you have to think about the risk and reward.

Answer 4

Why not just start out by asking her out to Some hang out place, first. If she says yes, ask her out more often. If she keeps accepting, she probably likes you the same way. Then you can ask her if she'd like to become your girlfriend by then.  

Answer 5

If you really like her, tell her! Why would it be embarrassing for people to know you are in love?

Answer 6

LIking someone is nothing to be embarressed about why not talk to some of your mutual friends about it tell them how you feel about her, and tell them that your worried about the outcome. These people know both of you and when you are together they probally have noticed something anyway and have their suspitions. Who knows she may have told one of them how she feels about you. Your friends know you both better than any stranger could so could give you a better answer. And dont worry i doubt they will think anything bad about you but they may talk amongst themselves to try and solve your problem for you thats what friends do its just because they care.

Answer 7

one day its your time to stop being so self consiuos and DO what you wanna without woory what may happen. ..... and hei im in highschool 0.o

Answer 8

try sending out signals and flirting a little to show her that you want to be more then just friends and see how she responds. dont sit the game out cuz ur afraid of losing. take chances, and put all ur heart in2 it!

Answer 9

if you're willing to take the risk, the view from the other side is spectacular.

Answer 10

no just tell her how u feel and if she says no then it will be weird for a while....but yall will end up still being friends

Answer 11

if shes a good trustworthy person she wont spread it around to her friends. and I'm not sure how close you are but it may cause some discomfort but she'll still probably want to be your friend! and if either one of you get uncomfortable then it will surely go away