Girl Friend Is Scared that i am going to leave her?

Question

Girl Friend Is Scared that i am going to leave her we both are 14 we are having a baby.

How can i get her to stress out. and get her to realize that i will never leave her

Answer 1

I am so sorry about the child. I hope that you are both ready for the baby, and I am so sorry that you have to go through this stress right now, I am 13 and could definitely not handle a baby, you are only a year older so that must be rough.

Anyway, when women are pregnant, they get anxious and nervous because of new hormones. There is not much you can do except show her your support and love. When she gets morning sickness, make her bed comfy for her or buy her some Starbucks once she feels better. Tell her every day that you care about her, if you truly mean it which I am sure you do. You seem like a caring person, and I hope that your first experience in fatherhood isn't too rough. I wish the best for you and your girlfriend, and I also wish the best for the baby.

Answer 2

wow.

14.

whoo.

Just hold her real close and whisper in her ear, "Love, I will never leave you. Don't ever think that. I love you. That will never change."  

Answer 3

First of all your are both way to young to be having a baby.

Second you both need to see a counsellor and pre natal care for her.

As long as you are there all the time it will assure her that you will be always there. Otherwise you both need to let nature takes its course but my honest opinion you will leave because you need to be a teenager yourself and not a dad at this age. This will happened naturally  and with age you will and she will then understand that  you were both far to young. Hopefully this experience will give you both something to think about the future. Wish you all the happiness in the world.

Answer 4

fourteen?! oh wow.

good luck with that. you really need to focus on good parenting and taking care of your girlfriend. your girlfriend will be going through hormones, pills, sickness, and mood swings! taking care of her will show that you care.  and she will have less fears of you leaving her.

you really need to learn on how to raise this child and take good care of this. so you might wanna kiss your young years good bye and make sure your child doesnt make the same mistake you did. just being truthful here.

e-mail me if you need anymore help  

Answer 5

Reinforce how much you love her.  Bring her flowers, take her places.

Hold her and keep telling her you are mature enough to assume responsibilities.  I hope so.  God bless bot of you.  Ga