Girl Help (need answers from girls too!!!)please help!!!!

Question

i'm in love with a girl but she's in love with someone else who's a friend of mine but she hasn't told him yet but he is suspicious of it and he's in love with her too. WHAT DO I DO!!!!!! is there any way to say i love you in advance and if she does start to love me back what will i say to my friend?

Answer 1

what are you 12?

you don't even know what love is.

Answer 2

At this point since she is friends with you, and she likes your friend who likes her back, just wait it out. If it was you she liked, she would have said so to you.

I know this isn't the answer that you were hoping for, but it is the best one I can give you.

Trust me, wait it out. Let them go out, see if they have what it takes. When they/or shall I say if they... break-up, then it will be your chance to go out with her. Telling her before hand is just going to cause your friend to get really mad at you since he likes the same girl, and the girl to feel really akward around you since she most likely doesn't feel the same way.  

Answer 3

well looks like your headed into a storm..tell the chic you love her and she might just kick you to the curb and you lose a friend too. not a good move. ask your friend how he feels about this chic...if he has feelings for her...back off man. good friends are hard to find...good luck

Answer 4

Tell her or he'll beat you to it.

Answer 5

you should tell her to listen to lil wayne

Answer 6

I dont think you should say it to her. wait it out with her and the guy and see what happens... and if it doesnt work out with the two of them then make your move! <3

Answer 7

i would ask her if she wanted to go get coffe sometime and then tell her but i would not wait just shine and if she dosent then you gained nor losed anything

Answer 8

Well now SLOW down. What if you don't love her and only think you do? The mind can be very tricky and convincing and this happens to many people. And if you do say you love her and she, by some miracle, learns to love you? No one is meant to learn to love someone. Is is untru. And if later on you fall out of love? You are bound on a one way course to unhappiness. What if your friend truely does love her and she feels the same do you really want to break that? Also realize that it is impossible to 'fall out of love' you just never loved said person to begin with. I am sure you have time. Wait for the right person to reflect your feelings or you will only make yourself and others around you permanently unhappy. Love is tricky and sometimes you just want to say to heck with it all. Be patient. It can also be wonderful one needs only to recognize it and treat it with care.

Good Luck. Take care in your decisoins and do not make haste. I hope I have helped.

Answer 9

if they both really do love eachother then you should probably not get in the way....it could start a terrible fude.

Answer 10

hah, sounds like a soap opera but anyways, tell her i guess. or fight for the girl or something.

hah, not much help.

sorryy.

Answer 11

You should definatly tell her :)

x

Answer 12

Depends... you might not want to get in the middle of it if they already like each other - might be time to start looking elsewhere bud.

However if she's one in a million and really truly your friend, tell her your feelings... but your friendship triangle may be non existant afterwards~ :)

Answer 13

I'm so sorry to hear your predicament. I understand that you need to tell her so she will know how you feel, but at the same time, if you tell her it could cause a lot of problems. If you tell her, she could get really upset, and confused, and your friend would probably get really upset with you and not talk to you for a while. Personally, I would only tell her if you are positive that she feels the same exact way that you do. Just ask yourself if it is worth losing a friend over something that you aren't really positive about. Saying "I love you" in advance may not be what you have to do. Just give it all time. Don't just jump into anything too fast, or it'll seem like a plot for a romantic comedy.

Answer 14

I think you should be supportive of her and your friend and if something happens between them then you know that it isn't meant to be for you and her right now.  That does not mean that in the future you may not have a chance with her, but you may also find someone else to fall in love with too.

Answer 15

Well, if your friend likes that girl too, then I'd let him have her. If they break up, then let her know that you've been there for her the whole time, and see if you can get together with her.

Oh, and don't try to help getting them together a whole lot. You can help a little, if it is asked of you, but don't be the messenger boy the whole time. Just see what happens. They might get over each other.

Good luck!

Answer 16

TELL HER THE TRUTH!!!! DUHHH

Answer 17

just wait... supportt her in her liking of your friend.. she will like that your not annoyed by it. and maybe if things don't work out for themm.. she will come running to you

Answer 18

definitely tell her... or she will end up likeing the other guy and she will think you are weird

Answer 19

she like your friend , your friend might like her.

what else could you do?

Answer 20

if i would you i would put my friend first and tell that she likes him and put your feelings aside because friends last longer than a bf/gf and if your friend likes the girl you are dating he might not want to be your friend anymore especially after he found out she used to like him right before you asked her out and that you also knew about it and didn't tell him it could just become a mess

Answer 21

tell her before she tells him. tell your friend the truth. maybe.

Answer 22

If it is serious and not a competition, then I would tell her, you have nothing to lose really. You will know and then you can act accordingly, if she prefers your friend then tell him you are moving on and not to worry about you unless he has reason to. Many a loves have been detoured cause someone was afraid or in a sticky situation, sometimes it pays to take the initiative

Answer 23

Act cool and do things that suit the girl's fancy. I have the same issue... (Except I like a boy...)