Girl I love is stuck with a psycho boyfriend. What to do?

Question

I love this girl who also is my best friend. We share a lot of things. We are very close, infact we have ended up getting physically close a couple of times too but she felt guilty as she has a boyfriend. Now this guy is an a**hole. He is a psycho guy who mentally abuses her and also beats her up if she talks to anyone that he doesnt know. He is psychotically possessive and abusive with no respect for girls. She has got bruised hands now. She always used to bank on me when she felt miserable. But lately she stopped talking to me as she said she feels its best for me and her considering how he is. I should also mention that we are in india where police is not an option considering the family values involved. She says that now on she would not hide anything from him. SHe wants to leave him but theyre in the same college and im in a diffrnt one.But we are great together and I dont want her to leave me like this. What should I do?? PLS HELP URGENTLY. I get suicidal tendencies as I love her

Answer 1

kindly divert ur mind on ur own work

ASAP

just forget her

Answer 2

I think you should talk to her, and let her know that if she really wants to leave her boyfriend then you'll be their for her to protect her. It's not like she is married and is forced to stay with him, help her out. But just remember that the only way a person can be helped is if they want to help themselves first, support her and love her no matter what happens. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

you should give her small and romantic joys, like emails and something that she really likes (like a favorite chocolate or fruit) and it will let her know that she has an alternative. take care of her and make her feel safe. and maybe you can help her transfer from that college

Answer 4

You're both severely messed up and if you do ultimately get together, please do not reproduce.

I realize that cultures are different in India so I won't even bother trying to interject American values into the answer.  However, she is accepting this treatment and doesn't want you in her life.  Your presence may be affecting her negatively and she may even be paying for having you around in the form of more abuse.  If the police and her family are unwilling to help her, I'm afraid that there is probably little you can do.

The fact that you are having suicidal tendancies over the situation tells me that you're not altogether in the right mental state either.  I would suggest helping yourself learn how to deal with life situations before you try helping her.

Answer 5

TAKE AN OPPURTUNITY.. TALK TO HER IN DETAIL ABOUT WHAT IS REALITY.. WHAT YOY FEEL.. OR TAKE THE HELP OF SOME BODY WHO IS CLOSE TO HER AND WHO CAN TELL HER THE REALITY.