Girl and lunch!10 point 4 bst ans!?!?!?

Question

hey guys i was wondering, b/c i like this girl, we dont have a lotta classes together and would it be weird if i went and sat with her and her friends at lunch (b/c i dont know her and she doesnt know me that well)...thnx!

and also i want to talk to her and get to know her better but i never see a really good opener...

Answer 1

well first if u don't communicate with her doing classes. yeah, lunch is a good introduction. u could also start with your name and mention the fact that u have classes together so she knows who u are. she'll talk to u if she's nice and polite. and just go from there. that's the best advice i can give.

Answer 2

if she goes up and buys lunch-go buy lunch also,and get behind her in line and start talking to her..eventually ask to sit next to her 4 the day or whatever..GOOD LUCK ! [=

Answer 3

Maybe if you guys buy lunch or see her in the hallway.. you can make conversation. If you somehow got behind her on teh lunch line and starting to talk about the food or something you both have in common at the moment, then sit with her to continue the convo..

Answer 4

Well if you have some classes with her, go up to her and ask if she would mind you sitting at her lunch table. Or go to her lunch table if there are open seats and ask her then. You may get a better response if you ask her face to face in class. She may wonder why you have an interest in sitting by her. You could say something like "You seem like a really nice person so we could talk for awhile." I hope this helps you! Be totally honest. Tell her you want to be friends. It may seem hard but...hopefully, its not! :)

Answer 5

It depends.

It might feel awkward for you and her friends. If her friends are all girls especially. But I can understand you needing a time and place to talk to her. Maybe see if you have any classes with one of her friends and then it wont be that weird when your sitting with them. Since you'll know one of them?

Otherwise, I guess you could just sit with them and talk but like I said, it might fall silent unless you know at least one of them, you know?

You could try finding her at the end of the day and walking by saying something like "It's 'Julie' right?"  and obviously use her name I just sued that as an example, that will give you a chance to show that you've noticed her. Or if she's in any clubs or teams, say something like "your on the volleyball team right? How did the game go?"  you know if they just recently played a game!

Good luck!

Answer 6

it might be weird if you just went up to her and sat wit her. maybe in a class you have together, sit by her and start a conversation. start talkin gand maybe something will happen!

Answer 7

I would suggest asking before lunch, or it could seem really weird.

Answer 8

just introduce yourself to her!!

and yea go and catch her b4 she sits down and ask her if you can sit with her im sure shell say yes!!

try giving her your number!! 'and initing her to chill with you sometimes and if your afraid shell say no to just chyllen with you ask her to chill with you and a couple buddies!!!