Girl at my gym, is she playing hard-to-get/flirting?

Question

She and I met eye contact and said hi to each other after holding our eye contact for like several seconds about a month ago and it was random times that we go to the gym at the same time. I didn't feel embarrassed for looking at her, but I looked at her and before I knew it we had eye contact for a good while.

Some other times I try act like I'm not interested because I don't feel like hitting it up with someone while I've got to do my routine, but I'm sometimes also nervous to show interest to a girl. She seems like a good person.

Today was one of the random days we happened to be at the gym at the same time. She was there and had a normal shirt on and some sweatpants, then after a little bit, went away, then came back with a sports bra on, no shirt and sweatpants. I didn't try to get eye contact today because I wasn't in a good mood going in.

I find it weird that she decided to change into a sports bra and no shirt after I came in, and she usually comes in either with a sports bra from the beginning to the end of her workout, or the shirt from beginning to end. She doesn't usually change in-between.

Was she trying to flirt with me or am I just reading into this too much? Should I just try to break the ice with her?

Answer 1

I think shes trying to flirt with you, break the ice and start talking to her and then you should be able to tell from the conversation and how she reacts by you approching her if shes feelin you ! Good luck!

Answer 2

I think your reading too much into this. But she is defiantly flirting with you. I don't think she's playing hard to get i think she's waiting for you to break the ice first. Ask her out to lunch or dinner.

Answer 3

I'd guess she's flirting with you.

But goddamn bro, show some balls! Well, not literally... Seriously though, just go talk to her. Be confident, casual, and charming, and you'll do fine!

Best of luck!