Girl help i never felt like this before?

Question

first off this question is not about g*y related issues. i don't have any problems with g*y people, i posted this here because you guys seem to put a lot of thought in to your answers.

there is this girl in my History class.....she is so beautiful. i cant talk to her. whenever i get around her i cant breath, i cant even stand straight. ever since saw her i feel sick, i haven't eat anything in days the butterfly's are so bad. i feel like my stomach is on fire. she is all i think about. i really need some help. any advice would be great.

she kind of smiles at me in class and in the halls. or she will look at me than look away real quick.

Answer 1

Sounds like she really likes you if you catch her smiling at you from time to time, and it sounds like you really like her.  The strong emotions you're feeling could be more than just the chemicals in your body.  If she really likes you, it could be that you are sensing pheromones from her that are triggering such a strong response in your body.  In turn, you are most likely also giving off pheromones, especially since you feel all funny when you're around her.  This in turn may be causing a positive feedback response causing her to like you even more, and it goes back and forth.

In short, go for it.  Stop being timid and ask her out because it's painfully obvious that you both like each other, and just acting funny won't get either of you anywhere.  Plus the only thing she'll dig more than your good looks and pheromones is your confidence.  What have you got to lose?

Answer 2

Why you did not post this question under normal peoples column. Why under g*y, L*****n and other perverted life style column?

Answer 3

thats soooo cute... it depends oh how she is, i think the biggest problem str8 ppl have in their relationships is that u think girls are all the same and when u like them u believe their all romantic and that but since theres 3 billion women out there that statement is probably worng so try to know her as ur equal and do ur best

seriously i think that was cute

Answer 4

awwww.thats so cute.

ok first, lol you need to learn how to control youre breathing when you are around her. and say hi my name is.... after that lol any conversation should be easy. tell her how you feel. what have you got to loose? she seems to feel the same way. smiles are a good thing.and that look thin lol where she looks away is a def sign. dont be afraid to say hi and ask her out.

Answer 5

she feels the same way,

basically you got to be a man and tell her you like her. (Tell her in the same way you just told us, she'll appriciate it)

Answer 6

Befriend her first, Learn more about her.

She may have looks of a super-model, But you have no idea about her personality, If you like her personality, then eventually ask her out, don't rush things.

Answer 7

Write her a note and give it to her or get somebody to give it to her or even slip it into her locker.

And tell her how you feel.

I know it will be difficult,but she might feel the same way about you.

And if she does and you guys start a relationship,it's the best feeling in the world when you know she's yours.

You could use my advice or listen to somebody else.

Answer 8

Ask her out and see what she says. If you don't you will regret it.

Also next time check out the singles dating column they put thought in they're answers too

Answer 9

You're smitten with her!  That's so sweet!

What about engaging in casual conversation -- perhaps about something going on in your school or in your community; and if that clicks, ask her out for a snack or some coffee (assuming you drink coffee!).  

Taking that first step to talk to someone is always the hardest (been there!), but remember -- nothing ventured, nothing gained!

Answer 10

Write a note put it in her locker. Does she play with her hair when she looks at you? or when you do eventually talk to her watch for this because its a classic sign a girl likes you.

Answer 11

awee well obviously you like her!! maybe get one of your friends to talk to her? or write her a note or something.. that way you dont have to directly talk to her.

Answer 12

Try to find a way to talk to her, about anything. When I was in school I think I let alot of really nice girls get away because we were both to shy to start a conversation. So I eventually started getting together and eventually married a more out going person who talked to me first.

She wasn't my first, probably not even in top 5, but since she talked to me it made things alot easier. And now were divorced.

Basically, if you don't take the initiative and choose the ones you want, then you will probably get chosen by some one you wouldn't normally want.  

Answer 13

Just say hi when you see her.Pretend you have a question about your history class & that may open a conversation.If you feel confident enough when talking to her then ask her if she wants to get a bite to eat or coffee or something after school.