Girl help?!?!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

Ok, well when it comes to girls i really cant talk to girls without sweating, my heart racing, or getting panic attacks lol so any tips for starting a conversation?

Answer 1

I got over my shyness of talking to guys I liked or was attracted to by just talking to any guy. I would be sitting next to one in class and I would strike up a convo, usually somewhere out of the blue. And yeah I got looked at funny a couple of times, but sometimes I made a really good friend. Now I have more guy friends then i do girl friends.

Answer 2

Hey man you just have to relax,If you're too tense the girl will pick this up and she'll be uncomfortable too.Always start by smiling,don't take it so seriously man it's not life or death.You can only get one of two answers either yes or no.You have to different from the other guys.To start a conversation just say hello,don't act like you're trying to hit on them.You have to slide in through the back door,ask for her opinion on something.You have to learn to think fast.You have to learn to make up stories for eg.You can say."My little sister thinks she's so big and wants to wear lipstick,I told her she's too young and she should not be in such a rush to grow up.She's only 8 what do you think about this and if you were in my situation what would you do."Try to come up wuth some other stories try to be interesting.Don't be afraid when you see girls in a group it's actually easier.Just don't pay the girl you like any mind when you start to talk to them try to win her freinds over first then it will be easy for you to go after her.Try to be natural,don't be tense and stutter and sweat.You should practise on some less attractive girls then when you feel comfortable enough go for the big league.All the best to you my freind.Take it easy don't worry about it just be cool.You just have to have a plan before you make a move,don't play it by air,think about what you're going to say before you approach.

Answer 3

Just to let you know you are not alone. I suck at talking to girls and I get teased for it alot. I'm interested in hearing what people have to say here...

Answer 4

first of all you have to be confident in yourself then it will be kinda easy i say just start a conversation how you always would with any of your friends or introduce your self

well hope this helps

Answer 5

when you approach a girl, tell her that you were nervous.  this will make you more endearing.  

Answer 6

just go "man i hate/love [teacher you both have class with]" then the conversation goes flying usually, cuz teachers always hav funny/mean moments, so u can talk 4 a while, then u can walk with her to her next class and send her off. i did that on the first day of school on tuesdy and it worked perfectly

Answer 7

Don't think you are ready yet. You got to get to the source of your panic attacks which encompasses racing heart, sweaty hands, etc.

Seriously, google "panic attacks-cause" and see what you find out.  With knowledge, you will be better positioned to start having fantastic conversations with the chicks.You could even talk about Panic attacks and what you researched. That would be a novel idea.  I mean if you did this tonight you could be ready to suit up and play tomorrow.  

Answer 8

start talking to them, even if u sweat and ur heart starts pumping it will go away with practice. wear extra deodorant on days you know you'll talk to girls. lol it will work if you give it a little practice and girls love guys who are social because it makes them happy and they like to get to know other guys. so start with a hey and go from there. talk about things at school or any sports they play (if they do) and ask them to hang out one time. you will bring some of your friends and she will bring hers.

good luck!  :D

Answer 9

say hi and go from there. bring up school and afterschool stuff. just easy stuff or get her number and txt her and occasionally say hi at school

Answer 10

My best advice would be to relax for a few seconds and take a deep breathe and believe in yourself. Walk up to her and ask her how is she doing and how is her day going so far and then go from there.

Answer 11

haha just be yourself dont act nervous but even just try to crack a joke or two or compliment her shoes, or tell her that her hair looks pretty. That is an easy way to begin a decent conversation.

Answer 12

just relax and say hi.

Answer 13

well for starters talk to a girl that you think is most like you, not just a hot girl that you could "get some" from. girls understand if you're nervous so dont think too much about it, maybe they are nervous abt talking to you too! Final advice......BREATHE : )

Answer 14

Awe. i think thats supercute actually.

a guy being nervous to talk to you?

i love that.

Anyhow.

you should just start with like a greeting like hi or hey.

and then just be like of are you into any sports? or like hey can you help me with the problem? or something and then start a conversation :]

Answer 15

thats cute. try just relaxing, girls are no different than you. we get nervous sometimes talking to you too. just ask questions about her like what classes she's taking, where she works, the usual. it's not too hard, just think of normal things you might talk about with your friends.

Answer 16

aww thats cute. we're really not as scary as you think. just go up to her and say hi and get her number or something. dont try to start some really long conversation or something because she might get bored and it might get awkward. keep the conversation light. good luck :)

Answer 17

It is normal to be nervous when you want to talk to a womanyou know nothing about.Sweating,heart palpitations,panic attacks are some ways it can manifest itself. One way to start a conversation is to say to say "i am not  even your boyfriend yet and already I am sweating, my heartis racing,I am getting panic attacks,and can not talk.this will elicit a laughing response from her and  the ice will be broken.and you guys can now begin to talk like you have know each other for ever.