Girl lied to me about stuff

Question

Girl lied to me about stuff

this girl who i liked and had a cush on lied to me about wanting a relationship. She said that after she broke up with her bf she didnt want a relationship or a boyfriend for a while. I told this girl that i had a crush on her and liked her and all that. Now i find out she is in a relationship with another guy. We are both 19. She also wokrs with me, so how can i approach her about this tommorow. I still really like her and care about her. I just wanted a chance.. but didnt do anything b/c she told me she didnt want a bf. i would have rather her rejected me than lie to me What should i do??? i am currently crying.

Answer 1

dude don't cry your 19. listen she might not like you so she was tryong to tell you nicely.  or she's tellin the truth. Listen when you go to work don't freak out, you didn't do anything. act normal.

Answer 2

She is so not worth your tears.  She is a liar.  She may have thought she was just sparing your feelings but she is still a liar.  Write her off and walk away.  She is nothing but a co-worker, treat her as such.  Find someone worthy of your feelings.  

Answer 3

Let her know how you feel, by the sounds of  it she just wants to be friends, but with your honesty it might open her eyes! Talk to her, explain just like you did here. Maybe she will give you that chance!

Answer 4

Unfortunately, maybe she just isn't interested in a relationship with you at this time.  Please understand that it doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with you.  19-yr-old girls just really don't know the difference between what they want and what they need.

'Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers'

Answer 5

First you should cheer up :) She is not worth all of this drama! She wanted to probably tell you that she did not want a relationship with you, but she didn't want to hurt your feelings...You sound like a nice guy, so just find someone that will not lie to you  :) Good luck, I wish you the best

Answer 6

get use to it. It happens a lot

Answer 7

:( That sucks.

I know the feeling - my bf of  2years dumped me 2 months ago because he ''didn't want a relationship''

Guess what his marital status is now!

He lied to me so much and sadly there is nothing I can do about it - as much as it hurts you just gotta plod along...

I still cry, but over time I've learnt to accept it.

It hurts seeing them with someone else.