Girl played me, im hurt?

Question

she says we are like best friends, but i found out its all a sham. i have feelings for her now. turns out she just wanted someone to be her buffer, so shes not alone, she two faced. she deleted me from msn, then lied about it, and prob laughs at me when im not around. shes always talking to me and shes in my class.

1.do i ignore her/cold shoulder?

2. why did u think she did this?

3. has this happened to you?

Answer 1

i agree with rajb above ^

Answer 2

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Syxx: I can't respond to the message you sent me because you don't allow messages!

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No, my friend.. this isn't about her, it's all about you.

You have far too little respect for yourself and no confidence to speak of. Naturally, this leads to you have some serious issues with how you perceive things.

This question is the perfect example of your mindset.

She said you are "like best friends." OK, what is being *LIKE* best friends mean? It means you're just plain friends. What exactly is it that you think friends do? Are you expecting dates, constant phone calls, pillow fights, what?! Yes, you're a buffer. That's part of what being a friend is.. you're there when someone is having a hard time. You said she talks to you all the time. That's *ALL* a casual school friend is.

You have feelings for her, she doesn't feel the same way. That's your issue, not hers. She claimed nothing more than friendship and, from what you said, she's been a friend. What in the world is two-faced about her saying you're a friend and then only treating you like a friend?

If you like her, be confident and ask her out. But don't go thinking she's two-faced, vilifying her, or otherwise acting like she's done anything wrong for not falling head-over-heels for you just because you have a crush on her.

Answer 3

JUST **** DA ***** SHE WILL REALIZE U WERE A GOOD GUY && THEY EVENTUALLY REGRET IT TRUST ME I WAS LIKE THAT 2 EXACTLY WAT SHE DID SHE NEEDS 2 GROW UP && LEARN 4RM HER MISTAKES SHE DID IT CUZ SHE THINKS ITS FUN && SHE WOULD GET MORE FRIENDS LIKE DAT OR JUST CUZ SHES A *****

Answer 4

Nope it never happened to me did you stock her or something maybe she was upset idk More info needed