Girl to girl!!!! (guys can answer too, but they probably won't get it:P)?

Question

okay, so this year I was in grade six, and my class was fairly immature, and I just basically didn't get along with them; I did, however, get along with some girls in the grade seven class, one of then who is my best friend, and has just moved away and isn't going to that school anymore. A lot of times I managed to hang out with them through her, since they mostly just hung out with girls their own age and not a year younger. Also, I'm fairly smart for my age, so I was given the chance to skip a grade. Now there are some girls in that class who, though I've always been nice enough to them, apparently (what others have told me) don't like me. One of them was kinda mean to me at the beginning of the year, but near the end started being nicer (for some reason) But now I keep on hearing that some girls in that class don't want me to be in their class, and I really just don't want to be that girl in the class that doesn't have friends. Especially since the classes in that school are really small, and especially since my best friend who was in that class moved away. So, I was wondering, girl to girl, why people in that class apparently don't want me in it, and what I can do, aside from just being nice and all that. I want to be liked, especially since practically everyone in that class is friends!! Also, irronically, the girl who was mean to me at the beginning of the year skipped a grade too a long time ago. (Luckily for her she was young and it wasn't as socially stressful as for me) So please, please, please answer!!!

Thanks!!

Answer 1

The more you care about what people think of you ,the less power you have. Concentrate on accepting yourself unconditionally .When you can do that others will respond positively without even knowing why they are attracted to you.Care less what people think for a start and love more who you are no matter how hard it seems ,it wont take long for you to raise your attractiveness .Feelings are invisible, but humans, however vain they have become still respond positively or negatively according to the way you percieve yourself.  

Answer 2

i think you were on here before

anyway if you know yu wont have any friends

if you were to skip a grade then you should

just stay in your own grade with the kids that

do like you or whoever you are friends with..i

understand that you hang out with people older

than you , i do to but i make sure i have friends

that like me that are my age..so im basically friends

with pretty much everyone in my area...if those in the

high grade dont like you, ots because they are

jealous or have issues..if i were you i wouldnt pay

any attention to them if its just them who dont like you...

if the whole class doesnt like you then if i were u i'd stay

in the same grade sa you are now..its not worth having

no friends and being friends with guys isnt a problem either

Answer 3

Wow I am sorry but my summer reading is done already!

Answer 4

i read it buts what the question

Answer 5

welcome to junior high buddy.

where all the DRAMA is just getting started. girls are going to become more cattier then ever.

deal with it.

Answer 6

These girls probably think they are better than you b/c most of them are older. It's a childish thing of them that hopefully they will get over themselves. Anyway What i would do is if the right moment comes up say a couple things to them. For instance if one day someone has a nice shirt on and you are near them be like hey ur top is cute, and maybe a conversation will come about.  Don't make it look like you are trying too hard to fit in,

good luck

Answer 7

im confused ?

Answer 8

well, some gurls r simply jealous. or. everyone has a diff way of describe being "nice". for others. they can look @ yur nice-ness as fake. idk. its jus the way high school wrks. ;) believe me. been there. still there. but yu shudnt b wrried abt wat others think. jus b yurself. and if they dont liek yu, their problem =] good luck wit high school.  

Answer 9

thats alot  

Answer 10

It is of utmost importance to develop your own capabilities as effectively as possible, and you cannot let the opinions, or particularly potential opinions of others stand in your way.  If you are capable of skipping a grade, I would advise you to do so.  Consult with parents and teachers, and consider their opinions.

Answer 11

be friendly.. and i'm sure you'll have friends in no time

but.. were you mean to them at first? did you have an attitude?

or they might not like you cuz you're the one thats immature

and if you're nice and all.. and it still doesnt work out, then there's something wrong with those people

Answer 12

That was confusing.  

Answer 13

I've heard of people skipping grades often having social problems. The other girls might just be jealous about you skipping a grade, and sense your younger then them, it makes them feel stupid that you can do the work they can. You can try being friendly to everyone, but not to the point of sucking up. Definitely make sure you don't become the teachers pet, as smart people tend to do. There's no reason you shouldn't make friends outside your grade. Try making friends with the people a grade younger than you, sense they're your age anyway. If there just aren't any friends for you in school, try going out for a play or join a club of your interest. they're both really great ways to make friends.  :)

I'm sorry i can't be more help than that. I hope you make lots of new friends!  :)

btw, your question isn't confusing, these people are just used to single sentence texting =)

Answer 14

jeez...some people are pretty weird for not understanding this question..or maybe we're the weird one lol xD

ok, so, they're probably jealous because you're very clever and have been given the chance to skip a year meaning, all the people your age, for example, would be in school and you'd be in high school. i think they're jealous because they never got that chance and are like all the other people, you shouldn't let anyone put you down, all you need to do is be yourself and socialize and make friends with everything in your class, hopefully they wont ignore you or something...and yeah, that's pretty much all i can tell you, i'm sure you'll get friends soon just be sure you don't brag!!!! I used to do that unwillingly and it got me no where - i had to learn the hard way ..

Answer 15

well i would say that first you shouldnt always believe what other people tell you, find someway to talk to those girls, if their being mean just ignore it. age doesnt matter, if your as mature as you say u r, well then maybe find some other girls in ur class. not the ones ur best friend introduced you too, some other ones and try that good luck

Answer 16

good luck finding someone to actually read this.

Answer 17

Being so young, you still have so much time to discover that there will be people that do not like you; however you have to learn to be comfortable with yourself and know that you are a good person no matter what. Do not try and be someones friend, that will make them hate you more. Do your own thing, don't be nice just to be nice to gain friendship. It could be that they are jealous of you, because you are smart. Once they see that you do not care what they think of you they will move on to another victim and leave you alone. Girls are catty and they like drama don't feed on it. Be you and don't take **** from nobody...I'm sure with that attitude you'll meet new people that want to truly be your friend and get to know you for you. If it's one thing you do not want is fake *** girls hanging out with you. Good Luck and keep ya head up. Just remember that you know you better than anyone else.

Answer 18

i don't really get it but, i will try. If you have a friend in the older class and none in your class skip to the older one. Or stay if the girl is in the same grade as you that is being nice. Try to make new types of friends instead of like popular or nerd lol idk what you are. If you are a nerd just be open and talk to them start conversations! If you are popular well i guess you wouldn't call it that if ppl don't like u lol so yeah if you are something other than a nerd just hangout with the nerds and get involved in what they are intrested in i know, doesn't sound too fun but, try it out!

Answer 19

i read the whole thing.. made no sense... can you clarify... did you skip a grade or not?

if you did, then just be friendly? maybe you should try being friends with guys or something; they might be easier to get along with?

otherwise, find some girls who aren't brats..

idk what you're really saying sorry