Girlfriend/Baby's Mother Help! Please...?

Question

Ok, my girlfriend/ later to be baby's mother, is telling me she does not want to be with me for stuff that has happened either way before we had gotten together, a long time ago, or my ex lying to her. She started saying this right after she had found out she was pregnant with our baby we have been trying for for a few months... we are as of now not together =( But i really am not liking this and I need to know, what can i do to try and help the situation. I have done everything I can think of... Please help me, i do not want to lose her for good. She was really my first love, and i just realized that. I want our family together...

Answer 1

Are you saying that you tried to get pregnant for a few months? Or you two have been working on your relationship?  She has A LOT of hormones going absolutely crazy right now. My best friends husband called me 3-4 times a week when she was prego.  She was nuts! Just be there for the dr. apts and help her financially for now.  You may just need to back off and let her hormones chill for a while.

Answer 2

just watch pokemon

Answer 3

If you ask me, this has all kind of signs that the bun in the oven is not yours.

Unless she calls you, I would stay out of the picture.

When the baby is born ask for a paternity test.

If the baby is  yours petition the court for visitation rights.

If she asks for child support (I bet she won't) ask for a paternity test before you shell any money out.

Had you married the gal, you may have had a better shot at being a daddy.

I'm betting the kid is not yours.

Answer 4

Sounds like there isn't enough communication. Why don't you try courting her and ask her out. Start out as friends and build the relationship from scratch - it's about your only shot. My husband is my best friend in the world and that's why we're still together after 19 years. We talk about everything. We also give each other space if we need it. We don't let others into our relationship (friend's opinions and whatnot).