Girlfriend is pregnant

Question

Okay...I asked earlier about this situation and got great answers. But my girlfriend decided to tell her parents that she was pregnant about 30 minutes ago... and I tried calling her she doesn't pick up, and I'm afraid to go to her house because I don't want her dad to completely snap on me. What the h**l do I do

Answer 1

Shes probably still talking to them right now.  You have to wait.  Call her tonight or tomorrow morning.

Answer 2

give it a few days to cool then go over

Answer 3

Well all I can say is Good Luck and God speed.....No seriously, give it a couple days then go over there and just let them know ur position on the way things going to be...Good Luck!!!!!!

Answer 4

Well, she's probably not very happy right now.

Not only is she pregnant (which is HUGE, whether you want to be pregnant or not), but her body is changing internally, she knows that it's going to change externally, she doesn't know how she's going to take care of a child, probably wasn't ready for this big of a decision.

In addition to all of that, she has to face her parents...alone. You're afraid that her dad will snap on you?! She very well may be taking the heat right now. And you are...sitting on Yahoo Answers.

You are the other half of what is in her stomach. In my opinion, you should be there with her when she tells them. If she has already told them, you should be there.

She's probably already scared that you're going to bail on her if she keeps it. So, not only is she getting the parental wrath for both of you right now, but it's probably racing through the back of her mind that she's going to have to go through RAISING A CHILD alone as well.

If she's already finished with her parents and is ignoring you...she is going through a lot, handled the stress of telling the parents without any support from you (as in actually being there with her, as it's YOUR child too), and her mind is doing somersaults.

So, yeah. I guess all you can do is wait, unless you're willing to go over there and see what happens when you talk to her parents. What are you going to do? Are you going to bail, or support the child, or are you going to stay with the girl? If you two decide on abortion, are you going to go with her for support?

She's stressed and scared. You need to think about how you are going to handle this situation. If I were you, I would have gone over there and revealed the pregnancy with her. Since you didn't, I still feel that the right thing to do is go over and talk to her parents, face to face, and tell them your thoughts. Just make sure that if you say you're going to support the child, you actually intend to.

Lies now will haunt you. I know you're stressing and probably scared, but it still needs to be addressed.

Good luck!

EDIT: Okay, I went back and read some of your questions prior to this...sorry if I come across as angry or mean. I'm not, I'm just trying to express how important it is that you support her in any decisions.

Good to know that you don't plan to run away to Florida *grins* What's more, it's great that you're in love. Still, no matter how much you love someone, this isn't an easy situation.

If the decision is made to abort, go with her. Be supportive.

If the decision is made to keep it, get ready to be a father. This isn't such an explosive situation as it may have been in the past. Granted, the responsibility is huge, but it's not like life is over. It will be harder to go to school, but there are a lot of programs to help both of you with that, both in high school and college (if you choose to pursue it).

I wish you both luck. The main thing is to be supportive, both at school and outside of it. Scary for you both, but physically harder for her...try to keep that in mind when she gets a little crazy.

Good luck to you both.

Answer 5

give them time and space for right now good luck

Answer 6

uh oh....hw old are you anyway? lock your doors and stay away from windowas. Who knows what her dad will do!

Answer 7

You're going to HATE my answer..but...wait. That's all that you can do.

Answer 8

Maybe she is still talking to her parents. Just give her a little while longer to call you.  

Answer 9

all she really needs is space...chances are she is still talking to her parents. A big life changing thing has happened and they're probably still trying to accept it.  Leave her a voicemail, maybe say i know this is big and i realize you need your space, but please call me when you're ready.  That way she'll know you care about her, but you won't annoy her or make her mad.  good luck with everything, and be there as much as you can (P.S. don't call every 5 minutes)

Answer 10

Take responsibly for your actions go to your girlfriends house and try and explain the situation again to her parents.......... sooner or later your going to have to face them. :)

Good Luck :)

Answer 11

LMAO, Kate, yeah, that's it.  God LIVES on gaining revenge on teenager parents.

Answer 12

just wait,

she might call you back

casue,who knows

her parents might have her phone

but you can,

go to her house at like 2am

check if the lights are on & go to her room

then try to wake her up,

[hopefully they didn't kick her out]

Answer 13

unfortunately all you can do is wait. im sorry thats all i can give you right now.

http://optionline.org/

http://www.pregnancystories.net/

Answer 14

I advise you to go on your life. It's already their, all you need to do is life for your son/dauther to be. Be a man.

Answer 15

Just wait a little while until she calms down.I know that you already know that this is a tough and very emotional situation for you and her, but just think about it... not only does she have as much stress as you,but her hormones are going crazy and she is the one that has to actually carry the baby for nine months.Not to forget, that her parents most likely flipped on her and might be putting her out of the house or faced with an abortion.( don't take my word for it,l wouldn't want you getting worked up for something that might not be true. I am just throwing out possibilities.)Wait till morning and try calling her or going over to her house when the parents aren't home so you can talk to her. Good luck and remember to be patient and take care of her.