Girlfriend keeps having dreams of me constantly being mean and hurtful?

Question

My girlfriend keeps having dreams where I am constantly mean and hurtful to her, mostly emotionally. For example, one was she said we were having s*x but I started screaming and yelling at her for no reason. I have never ever been mean to her though in real life. She said she was afraid of getting hurt or too emotionally involved early on when we started our relationship and still is worried about getting hurt. Is that what these dreams mean?

Answer 1

my girlfriend has those too and im a very nice guy it might mean she wants you to be meaner or wants you to be meaner while having s*x . just let her know that youd never be like that to her

Answer 2

this is weird, because recentley I had a dream that I seen my boyfriend of over two years sleeping with another girl (whom we both dislike a lot) and then confronted him about it and he acted like it was no big deal then told me that it had to end sooner or later and that he couldnt be with me forever, kinda deal. i was so upset i woke up crying (luckily he was beside me ) but i couldnt stop thinking about how real it felt and reazlied i am scared of losing him and things going wrong. so yes i believe you are right about the dreams she is having, even tho you really aren't hurtful to her in real life she sub-consciously is scared you might hurt her. just reassure her that is is just a dream and she has nothing to worry about and you're there for her! good luck !

Answer 3

if she had bad relationships before.. shes probably just worrried your gunna hurt her too

Answer 4

These are probably dreams showcasing her fears.

SB

Answer 5

Hey,

  Well first off I think it would be a good idea to reassure your girlfriend that this will never happen because you care about her so much. I think she is dreaming these things because she is afraid that you will somehow betray her trust and cause her pain or harm.

I think she is having some trust issues with you and that you need to help put her mind at ease. When she tells you about her dreams maybe tell her that you are surprised she is having these dreams because there is no way you would ever do something that hurtful because you care about her too much or something like that.

But as a female I definitely think this is where these dreams are coming from. If you want to look up some of the themes of her dreams here is an awesome website:

http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionar...