Girlfriend material vs. BOOTY CALL? Please answer!?

Question

Where is the line? When she is more than just a friend with benefits?When you realize you really do dig her and want to be with her exclusively? And how do you show her, even if you are a really busy person? How often would you see her? What kinds of things would you do?

Please answer questions with details. Thanks a lot--best answer wins 10 points!

Answer 1

You know that she is more than a booty call when you think about more than just s*x. If you enjoy spending time with her, even if its just to watch tv, when you think about her smile, when you look into her eyes, when you want to hold her hand, or show her off to your friends, when you want to cuddle in the mornings, when your jealous that she may be spending time with another guy, when she is all that you think about, when you long for her to text or call or email  you.... I think I have listed a fair few....

And show her that you like her with spontaneous txt messages or emails, telling her that shes cute. Send her flowers to work. Take her out to a romantic dinner and even if your busy and cant make time to see her, call or email so she knows your thinking of her.  

Answer 2

Weekends are good, even the busiest person has at least a day free on the weekend to do whatever they want. If you really want to show her that she means something to her cancel a prior engagement you have so you can spend time with her and make it known to her that you have cancelled your plans to be with her. This will show her that she is someone special to you not just a booty call.

Also I would reccomend holding off on the s*x for awhile, not a long time but take her out on a few dates or spend nights in watching movies and cuddling, this proves to her that even though you know you can have s*x off her your more interested in getting to know her and what shes all about.

Good luck with it all!

Answer 3

The line is when you actually start to think about her when you don't mean to.  When you start to consider her for things that aren't booty related, like oh, she'd like that, or perhaps I can go see that with her, or, hmm I should do that because of her etc.

You can show her by telling her how you feel, and that your feelings have changed.  You can then go on proper dates/outings that don't involve getting booty at the end.  

You would then try to see her as much as you can that she will want you to see her (space issues, got to give them space if they want/need it too).  That's what I would suggest.

Answer 4

This is where the line is

"When you realize you really do dig her and want to be with her exclusively"

But you have to consider where she draws her line might not be the same as you.

Being that you are a busy person... I would take time out from your busy schedule and do something she likes...show up at her work place with her favorite flowers??? Hopefull this will show her that you are not to busy for her and get her thinking about you in the way that you want.

Maybe take her out to a nice resturant and if she likes stars take her stargazing.

Stargazer Lilies make a nice impression, they do have a strong fragrance like all lillies do. Hope you were paying attention to her likes and dislikes if she ever talked about them. If she doesn't know you can cook then that might be your shoe in the door.

Answer 5

buy her something just to show u care, it doesn't have 2 b expensive

Answer 6

I would say she is more than a friend with benefits when you something in your heart or head tells you that you like her. And when you decide you want to be with her only, is when you know you like her. And you can show her by leaving a message/email or calling her, or maybe if you run into her. As for the last one, I have no idea. If you mean to prove it, then maybe buy her a cute gift, be it expensive or not? A ring, chocolates, a bear?

Answer 7

when in a **** buddy type relationship at some point or another someone wants to be more than that, just ask her how she would feel about a proper date with more talking rather than s*x. If it goes well then tell her exactally how you feel and hope she feels the same way. If she doesn't want anything serious don't be offended its not you, i mean you already have a s*x life right. Its probably just that she has commitment problems.

Answer 8

dude.  for real?  you've got the girl putting out sans emotional baggage/garbage... and now you want the emotional baggage/garbage???!?

w/e.  at least i know better