Girlfriend pregnant and i'm scared?

Question

my girlfriend is pregnant going on a month now. or we believe she is jus havent had a doc specifically tell us. we have to wait a couple weeks. anyway im 25 she's 22 and i plan on asking her to be my fiance in 2 weeks. we dont believe in abortion and it's not even a question im in it for the long run so im jus curious if anyone else is in the same position and how hard it was to tell parents?

Answer 1

Ill send joey boots over, she will have an "accident".... no need to tell mommy and daddy...........

Answer 2

youre an adult and youre serious about the girl their is no need to worry about telling parents. they will accept it. its normal to be scared, bringing a new life into the world is a big deal, but if you both support each other it will be fine. however you say you are not sure she is preg so why dont you do a test all this worry cud be for nothing! good luck!

Answer 3

You're not a teenager, your parents should be happy.   Congrats.

Answer 4

PLEASE... don't get an abortion, 3,000 soilders have died in Iraq since 2003, and 4,000 babies have died in America since YESTERDAY. I would be glad and get married... be happy!

Answer 5

you are old enough not to worry about how to tell your parents just say me and (Insert her name here) are going to have a baby and we are thrilled.  and yes i was in that situation with my daughter and i was 5 years younger than you and my now husband was 18.  but it all worked out just fine.  just make sure you arnt asking her to marry you just because of the baby!  and congrats and good luck your in for a whirlwind of love and sleepless nights!

Answer 6

I bet you that she is even more scared then you are. In a happy way of course. Don't worry about telling your parents, I'm sure they will be happy to have a grandchild!

Answer 7

At least you arent 12!!! Id be happy! Dont get married JUST because of the baby. Congrats!

Answer 8

Try to remember that things could be worse - you have each other and a life to live.  I would first of all get the pregnancy confirmed (it is possible you are mistaken and this won't really be happening yet).  If you are having a baby, good luck and congratulations.  It might not be what you have planned, but that is life.  There are more families about that started this way than you might think.  At least you know what you want to do, so I think tell your parents the truth.  Give them some time to get used to the idea.  They will love their grandchild, and it is not like you are both 16.  Maybe you can ask them for their help too.  Maybe you could tell them about the engagement first (good luck with that) and then tell them about the pregnancy, or at that time (that is two things to take on board, but they will see you have thought about it and have a plan).  Good luck.

Answer 9

DUDE YOU ARE 25 JUST TELL THEM. YOU ARE A GROWN ASSS MAN. AND IF THEY CAN'T HANDLE IT TOUGH SHITTT.SO WHAT IF YOUR NOT MARRIED AND HAVIN A BABY. BESIDES IF THEY DON'T LIKE THE NEWS THEN DON'T LET THEM SEE THE BABY. IT NOT THAT HARD. BELIVE ME I'VE BEEN THERE BEFORE. AND DON'T MARRIE CUZ OF THE BABY. BY THE WAY CONGATES.