Like some of the other ones, I'm 20 yrs. old and I found out that my girlfriend is pregnant yesterday afternoon. I guess it really hasn't hit me so much yet because this is happening all to quickly and unexpectedly. At first when she told me, my whole world stopped and everything came to a complete halt. "Please tell me your joking with me!?" is all I could say. she replied she wasn't joking. She went to the doctors with her mother and they seperated them from one another so the doctor could tell my girlfriend the news. it p!ssed me off because her mom told told her "I'm giving you 2 options..."
1.) You keep the baby but you move out of the house.
2.) You get the abortion and you never see your boyfriend again.
So you can only imagine how that made me feel when my girlfriend told me that. then I found out that my girlfriends mom told her that she her to get an abortion. My girlfriend told her mom that I think she should keep the baby and her mom said that I "Don't have a say in it." If you haven't put two and two together, me and her mom don't get along great really. She can be a bit of a two face being nice to me, giving me rides to places if I need them and yet she'll turn around and talk S**t. I can sorta understand her being mad cause my girlfriend is the youngest in the family. problem with religion-wise I guess is she's catholic and I'm christian. No males are aware of this in her family as far as I'm concerned. her aunts and cousins know. but I'm pretty sure they'll talk if they weren't told to do so by now.
I gotta get my girlfriend outta that house because I know her moms going to bring alot of negativity towards her while she's already feeling it as it is. She can move with her friend since her friend has offered her a place to stay. or she can move with me but the thing is that my parents don't know yet. My sister, cousin and a few friends know but them. It's ironic because on Wednesday my dad was joking telling my mom she was pregnant. Thursday she graduated from High School, Friday she find out the big news. (Symbolizing the end of one life of finishing school to prepare for a whole other one.) we talked and I rest-assured my girlfriend it wasn't gonna be easy, alot of people are gonna be putting us down emotionally and what not but everyone down the line is gonna have to accept it. I told her I will bust my A$$ to support her and this baby to put food in their mouths and pretty soon a roof over their heads cause I'm not losing both of them.
I have a job working a night-shift security guard. about 42 hours a week. It's the best job I have going for me right now. I got transfered from another site to here so I usually get around $480.00 but I think I might get the same or a little bit more since I'm over here. I know I average between $7.00-$7.50 an hour so my question is what can I do? ANYTHING can help. I'm trying to be positive for my future to be family and I'm learning to accept the cards god dealt me with. Any advice, PLEASE !!!!!! A.S.A.P. !!!!!!!!!!! 10 Points for detailed answers !
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