Girlfriend says it's not you its me?

Question

My Girlfriend and I have been going out for 5 years now and for the past 6 months she has been in a funk, and we haven't been intimate, and she enjoys going upstate to hang out with her childhood friends and she will not bring me. She dropped out of school, in her final semester and her parents have noticed a change in her. They are fed up as well.

She tells me there is no one else and she needs to sort out her life.

Answer 1

Sounds to me like your GF isn't interested in you anymore. I'm sorry.  

Answer 2

When a girl says "it's not you it's me" It's DEFINATELY YOU that she doesn't want. basically it's another way of saying "I sorta like you, but I don't want anything from you, especially not a relationship".

Answer 3

its not you its me ey? its a excuse to say shes not interested any more it acually is you no offence because she broke up with you i say u need 2 go out and see the free people. odviously shes a lying punk in my eyes

Answer 4

well i wouldnt tolorate it. If she cant bring you shes hiding something. Girls dont want to bring guys around other friend probably because theirs a ''guy'' in her friends group. Best advice, act like your not worried about, try to go out and mingle with other ppl. You dont need her, theirs alotta other fish in the sea. GOOD LUCK.