Girlfriend trouble! Girls especially help!

Question

Whenever i am around her or i call her we make conversation for like 2 minutes and i really wanna find something to talk about with her but i have no ideas can you guys help me.

P.S we are 14

Answer 1

haha just be silly and have fun and get to know her and have her get to know you that always helps people to start a good conversation. dont be shy :)  

Answer 2

talk about what happened in school..like did somthing funny happen..or what?

Answer 3

tell her a joke! or ask her what she likes.

Answer 4

My boyfriend and I have the same problem.. just say something like find jokes or talk about school or say something cute.. it always works trust me  

Answer 5

well u can start by telling her is she okay..is there anything she wants to talk about...cuz sum gurl would love telling guys there problems they just don't know were to start..so it would be better if u just pop the question first

Answer 6

make a list of things that you think are interesting before you call her.  Come up with a general topic, and then three questions you can ask her about that topic. Hope that helps  : )    

Answer 7

Talk about school, fashion, music...

Answer 8

Talk about something you both can relate to. Such as a funny tv show you both watch. I am 14 to and a girl. Hope this helps

Answer 9

talk about your friends and stuff. Its fun  

Answer 10

Talk about something she likes or finds interesting.

Answer 11

lmfao aww thats so cute (:

kay heres some stuff you could talk about;

- how her/your day was

- funny stuff that happend at school

- anything interesting going on in your life (trips, something new)

- partys you both went to

- what classes you both have next year

- your (mutual) friends

- your/her plans for the day

- start a game of would you rather

- start a game of questions

hmm thats all i can think of right now!

hopefully one of these things with get an actual conversation going lol

good luck :D  

Answer 12

Lol I hate it when there's nothing to talk about.

Talk about:

~The Olympics in Beijing (lol I LOVE IT!)

~Something funny in school

~Your friends

~Stuff you did that day

~Find pictures and talk about it

But when it gets silent I do recommend .... being random. It always brings out a laugh!

xox- Julie

Answer 13

talk about school or something. and if she has a hobby or something, you can ask her about it, after educating yourself a bit on it, and she can help teach you. my life is ALL riding and working with horses, and i love it when people ask me about it and my horse and all. hobbies. you don't even have to know anything about it!!!

Answer 14

Just try talking about anything.

What happened that day, your interests, her interests, tv, etc.

Being random is always good; it will make her laugh. :D

Me and my boyfriend watch the same shows while we're on the phone alot of the time, so we talk and laugh about those.

Or you could play the question game. :P

You ask her a question that you want to know the answer to, and she has to answer it honestly. Then she asks you a question and you answer honestly, and it keeps going. It's fun, and you learn alottt about each other.

Answer 15

I'm a 14 year old female, so I can guess, expecally since nearly all my friends are guys.

-Ask her questions. If she's not a talker, I suggest meeting up with her in person or IM. Definatly ask her questions that require more than a yes or no question.

-Talk about Mutual friends and what they're up to

-Anything that intrests both of you.

Normally, I belive in not dating someone if the converstaiton dosn't flow, but I'll let you be an exception.