Girls,,help me with my best friend?

Question

ok. she is my BEST FRIEND.

i love her like a sister and i relly care about her.

she is dating this guy...and he does weed, and he is only 13!!!

yeh, SICK i know.

and she is starting to do it...and today, she isn't at school!

she skipped school today so that this boy could come to her house and do god knows what.

im really woried about her...she is only 12. WAYY to young for this kind of S**t. im 15, and i know it's weird to have a younger friend...

anyway, she used to be so good and so on track.

but she is a mess now.

and she called me about an hour ago and she said they we drinking beer. that is SOO not like her!

and she said she had to go and that she would call me back in ten minutes...it's BEEN AN HOUR!

her exact words:

"hey, me and justin aren't being able to do anything fun, hehe. i'll call you back in 10 minutes."

then i hung up.

i just don't want her to end up like me /;

what should i say to her?

Answer 1

explain to her everything you explained in this question, then if she doesn't quit it tell an adult, a teacher your parents, or her parents or anyone who will be able to help. don't let her away with it cause it could ruin her life and she will thank you later.

Answer 2

Don't say anything to her, but if you do the writing you did up there was pretty good. Tell teachers or her parents or even your parents. Adults will know how to handle this, and don't be shy because you could be saving her life by telling somebody. Sure she might dislike you for a bit but that is a risk you have to take. She will soon come round. You go for it! I think that it is really nice you have a younger friend you really care about! Good luck to you and her X

Answer 3

You need to tell her if she values your friendship at all, she needs to alter her behaviour. That is no way for a girl her age to act at all, or even a girl your age.

If she doesn't take you seriously, then tell her you'll have to talk to her parents. She might be pissed at you for awhile, but hopefully she'll understand that you're looking out for her best interest. If not, move on, you're young and have plenty of time to make new friends. The kind of friends you can be proud of and that won't get you into trouble.

Answer 4

do  what is best. This means tell her she needs to break up with this guy, or she risk losing her friendship with you. see wich she cares for the most, then you will know who your real friends are..............

Answer 5

She is the only one that can fix her own problems but be honest with her and tell her that you feel like you are losing her friendship. I've went through this before and it's not easy. Don't be like me and my best friend... don't go without telling her the truth how you feel and losing her friendship. You may become friends later on but it's never the same. I promise you that.

Answer 6

she sounds like me as a kid...lol  BUT dob her in now  ..she might hate u for a little while but will thank u for it eventually  ,, quick do it.. u may just prevent an unwanted pregnancy or an accidental  overdose  who knows.  kids die from drinking too much beer u know.. it does happen..its called Tough love  

Answer 7

Don't talk to her at all, call or text her mom/dad and tell them they need to come home from work ASAP that their daughter skipped school and is at home with a boy drinking and smoking pot.  I will probably get thumbs down for this but it is the best thing you can do for  your friend.  She needs to be stopped/needs help now before things get really out of control.

Answer 8

uve gotta tell her ur honest opinion. if she wants to stay friends with you shes gotta kick those stupid habits. she might think its ok for her to do it now cz maybve she thinks shes invincible being all young and c**p but shes gotta understand shes not grown up enough, not responsible enough for those things. u gotta tell her that guy shes with doesnt know what hes doing.