Girls, Have you ever changed yourself to get a guy???- be honest!

Question

i did.....once, haha

the guy liked girls who wore short stuff,

so on the last day of school i wore sumthing short, and he noticed!!!

i know, i know, you shouldn't change urself for a guy, but sometimes i think you have to.

anyways, how about you? = ]

Answer 1

No. If i have to change for a guy, he isnt worth it. He has to like me for me.

Answer 2

Lol, hm...

I can't remember a time. But I probably did :-D

I'll edit, if I remember.

xox- Julie

Answer 3

yes badly and i  regret it i changed to wearing jeans and shirts to short skirts and tank tops for 1 guy  and he didnt even like me  

Answer 4

When I was little like 14, I wore a miniskirt to win my ex back and it worked haha.

Answer 5

I changed my whole life around

i like it better now

we arent together anymore

but i have so many new friendships with great people

sometimes changing yourself isnt that bad :]

Answer 6

I wouldn't say I changed myself for him, but being with him definitely influenced me in certain aspects of my life. I still have my own interests, he just added a couple more to the list. I like to call it my own little evolution. Change is part of growth, ya know?

Answer 7

I hanen't if you need to change to get a guy to like you then he is probably not for you..x

Answer 8

yepp.

i acted like a s**t

changing how i talked and stuff

so everything was sexual.

i don't reccomend it.

Answer 9

Haha that's not changing yourself, just what you wore for one day.  That's nothing bad =].  With one of my boyfriends things were really bad and my friend asked what happened to me and I didn't know what she meant so she started explaining how I was different and I realized that I no longer had any opinions on anything.  He did all my thinking for me.  After 9 months of that we ended it permanently and I didn't know what to do with myself.  I wanted to die because I didn't think I could live without him.  HA!  I'm so glad that's over.

Answer 10

No I haven't and I promise myself that I never will. To me and my point of view, it is not worth it to change yourself to impress a guy because it is better to be yourself so they can see right through you and who you really are and not what they want to see. If a guy is noticing you are changing yourself for him ,he might take advantage of you and think you are a suck-up. Don't take the risk.  

Answer 11

Yes I have I went gothic / emo to get this guy to notice me and we went out for like 2 weeks then I had to get homeschooled and he moved to another state. Sad  

Answer 12

Yesh

I turned emo && im a prep

Answer 13

no i dont think so. i usually like guys who i have most in common with.

Answer 14

I actually haven't changed to GET a guy, but I've changed myself to KEEP a guy. Like I thought he was going to break up with me, so I started acting like the girl I thought he was going to dump me for. Bad idea. He dumped me anyways, for being 'fake'. Guess that's how the cookie crumble. Cookies....mmmmm. Lol.