Girls, I really need advice on this please help me!!!!!?

Question

Ok so here is the story, I love a girl, let's call her Lola, she is great, she's beautiful, smart, funny, kind, and anything else I ever looked for in a girl. I talk to her on myspace all the time and we hang out sometimes. Well I asked her out a few months ago and she said she only wanted to be friends. We still talk all the time and everything, but I at the time I was really hurt so I turned to one of my friends, let's call her Izzy, for advice. We talked a lot about what I should do about Lola and all this other stuff. Well then one night Izzy tells me that she likes me, and I only like her as a friend so I told her that I only want to be friends. Since then Lola has shown an interest in me, and Izzy won't leave me alone on myspace. They are both really great people and I don't want to hurt either, so should I just not date either?

Answer 1

yes, you are a great guy to think that.you are probably the only guy that would think that. other guys would not care and just go for one they like and not care about hurting the other one. so good job for you. either one of those girls would be lucky to have you.i would personally go for Izzy if i were a guy. cuz you tried to tell Lola how you felt and she only wanted to be freinds. and Izzy told you how she felt and she seems to really like and is trying to get you to feel the same way. but if you dont and think you can only be freinds with her then i would say go for neither. and just be freinds with both of them.  that would be best. since you dont want to lose either of them just stay freinds with them thats the best way to go. i wish you the best of luck!!

Answer 2

I don't think you should date either but be sure to stay close friends with them both

Answer 3

im not a girl but pick izzy and see where it goes :-) you might like her more

Answer 4

Yep. You know the answer already buddy!

Answer 5

yea i think so

Answer 6

date the one u like the absolute most which i think it sounded like that was Lola so if u really like her better then go out with her, the other girl will get over it eventually, this stuff happens a lot the other girl will be fine, just do what u think is right

Answer 7

Interesting delima...

I got nothing...

Answer 8

yeah don date either

izzy might get hurt if you go out with lola

and lola will prolly think that if you go out with izzy then you have NO interest in her

Answer 9

Well i think if lola starts liking u and wants to be with u then tell her well that one of ur friends like u and ur scared to date because it will hurt her. Basiclly all u need to do is tell her ur situation just like u did on here so she understands. I kno it sucks to reject people but u have to do it and i kno it hurts a lot cuz im sure uve gone tru it but if u have a gut feeling that tells u no then dont. Your instincts are right.

Good luck and take care xoxo

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