Girls, can u be too charming?

Question

im not joking or bragging i really need some help, im a huge flirt, well thats what girls say, they say im a charmer. i just compliment them and make them feel pretty. girls say im hot since im very athletic and iv had alot of gf's but they never last, its hard to stay faithful, i always have to watch my back cuz a girls always tryin to jump on it. i had s*x when i was 15 with a girl that i thought liked me for me, she was 22, said it was fun and left, they all seem to do that. i feel really used all the time, i shouldnt be complaining but at school i got in alot of trouble for "being" with a girl in the locker room. i have impulse control problems, how do i get girls to leave me alone, especially ones that use me for their fun and tell their friends and leave. guys say i shouldnt complain but i feel bad when truth is they take advantage of me. what do i do to say no?

Answer 1

Just open your mouth and let the air come out.

Answer 2

for one maybe you need re-evaluate the girls your interested in and the ones you let in your life. and 2...grow up and learn how to control your impulses. keep your pants on, wait til a special girl comes along. one you have genuine feelings for and have been with longer than a month

Answer 3

just try to control your horny self.

stay away from those type of girls

maybe it's you, not them

Answer 4

just tell them to stop! just wait for a girl that seems real and isnt using u to seem cool

Answer 5

well u should be happy to have s*x all the time ok so y complaining

Answer 6

Try not to flir so much, theres a guy in my school , one of my closest friends, that sounds that same way........i went out with him, and we lsted for a couple months, but he was flirting with other girls alot. If a girl acts like she just wants to use u, then tell her ur not interested. easy as that

Answer 7

You have to get to know the girls you are spending time with, if you know that she has used guys before than just shut her down when she flirts with you. Just say your not interested or don't flirt back. Turn down the charm, don't flirt back.

If it's that much of a problem for you, you should get more guy friends and just try to spend less time around girls.

Answer 8

maybe you should stop flirting that much, and try to act like you're not really interested in them. acting like you;re not interested might make them want you even more, since they know you're not available to just anybody. then, you choose somebody that clicks into you, like you feeel like shes the one. you have to like her for the personality too. then you'll probably just focus on her, and all the other girls would feel jealous and not bother you anymore. =]

Answer 9

dont flirt with every girl! I was the same....guys kept coming and going I wasn't a s**t or anything dont get me wrong...but I have lost my virginity to a guy I thought was perfect.. but then I found out.. that another girl thought he was perfect..he was cheating on me the most..he went with her right after we finally did it...he flirted like you did..made me feel amazing! but at the end he came out to be d**k head.. :( and I have had many guys too..its just that they wanted me for my looks..so they could show me off..and then leave.. I was really nice to all my bfs..I dont know what went through their brains tho :( but I stopped I didn't flirt anymore...unless I really liked the guy.. and if I got asked out by the d**k head group I turned them down harshly..hahah ...i kinda embarrassed them..and everyone was on my side well all the girls were.. the guys thought I was a ***** for not going out with them..etc..ect.. so yeah.. I understand hahah a 22 year old. wow.

but just dont flirt alot.. unless you really like the girl..that's how most of the guys left me alone. :)

good luck!