Girls, do you find this as a cheating?

Question

Hypothetically...

Girls, what do you say?

You're in a successful relationship. You love your boyfriend and he loves you. He thinks you're the best girl in the world and he means it. He would do anything for you. He would never cheat on you, it's against his principals nor he has a need to cheat on you. But there is one thing...he kinda loves p**n and loves to comment on another girls over the internet and asks them to send him their photos (feet photos to be exact because his foot fetish) via myspace, chat, etc and he's doing it just because he likes p**n and he treats that like a p**n. He likes to do it, but he loves you the most and he has never told any of those girls that he would do something sexual to them nor he thought about that nor masturbated looking at those photos.

Do you treat that as a cheating?

Answer 1

Of course not. This is just fantasy he is not meeting girls, or kissing them or doing anything at all that could be seen to be cheating.

Answer 2

i dont think its cheating,and its nice of you to try to understand were his coming from cause u say he really loves you,and i think you no that in your heart,,,lifes to short to worry about the little things,,love b happy..peace

Answer 3

Technically it is not cheating, but honestly if a woman truly loves the man there is no way she could be comfortable knowing what her man is in too? If you were the man that is into such things.... (p**n I can understand) but asking females to send photos of which you are fascinated with, now that is weird.  The man should be fascinated by his gf/wife's body parts instead of another.  

Answer 4

LOL!

No it's not cheating. But everyone has their own definition so your girlfriend may or may not think it's cheating.

Answer 5

a freak

Answer 6

Well, depends. Being on both ends before, the cheater and Ill call it the cheatee LOL...anyways...on p**n sites. NO not cheating. However...MySpace, YES! These might be girls from his area and TROUBLE! These are actual girls and rather S****y ones if they are actually sending him photos he is requesting. On p**n sites these hoochies are being paid for it, are these myspace girls NO! So just another angle to look at it from...Good Luck. Also a question....why is he not looking at YOUR feet??? If he loves you then you should be ALL he dreams and/or fantasizes about.....Right??  

Answer 7

Me myself, don't consider that cheating as long as he doesn't do it to satisify some sort of sexual pleasures---Everyone has  some sort of fettish----he just loves feet.

Answer 8

Nope i do not think it is cheating.