Girls, please help me thanks?

Question

There is a girl who I've been going out with for 4 days. She is attractive and funny. But sometimes she is so hard to talk to because she can get quiet and shy. She has autism and ADD which makes it harder because she'll have moments when she doesn't pay attention. We have been clicking much better but not at the level that I can be flirty and kiss. Right now, I've been taking it slow with her. Her parents are so overprotective so I've been sorta sucking up to them which makes me a little more uncomfy around her. But somehow I see something about her that attracts me to her. What should I do?

Answer 1

You keep on doing what you're doing.  Her parents don't want her to be hurt and wonder how long you'll be around before you leave her.  Or they wonder what your intentions are.  Just be there for her and when she gets quiet and shy they you do the talking, or get her doing some activity you both like.  It's only been 4 days....stop worrying about the flirting and kissing just yet.  That will come with time

Answer 2

OMG you are so sweet. my little brother has autism and my other little brother has ADHD. i think that her parents are being overprotective because they are worried that you might only be going out with her as a joke. but just keep doing things the way you are and you will know when the right time for kissing is

Answer 3

ohhhh..

first. i havent been with a person who has ADD but sure i do know how they behave. well, it is all up to you dear. if you really like her then go ahead. but you must know how to handle her as what you've said, her family is overprotected.. of couse, you should understand her behavior. one step at a time. but never ever hurt her. treat her special since she indeed special.

if you finally realize that you cant handle her then you cud just keep yourself away from her slowly, because people who has ADD can be hurt so badly..

good luck..

Answer 4

i think you should try to find a way to prove her parents that you dont want to hurt her maybe that would help you feel less uncomfortable with her