Girls, the man's approach to you?

Question

Do you prefer a man that will just come right up to you in a public location like a club or bar etc and introduce himself and try to get to know you, or do you think that is too pushy? If you do, what approach do you think is the best when a guy is trying to meet or get to know you while out at a public locale?

Answer 1

I like when they stare at me get my attention first, then let me look back at them, then they come over and start talking, but just to come up without me knowing them its just rude

Answer 2

I m not a women, but i have experience in this field, so i ll answer it. I never come and introduce myself nor ask them to introduce themselves, why should you tell information to some1 you dont know? They will think you want to have s*x with them. In most case this is the truth. And guess what an attractive women gets hit by men 10-15 times a day, and guess what all of them open with?..

I ll tell you what i use...



You see some1 you like, Just walk up to her, dont think about anything.. ask them for a female opinion.. like... guys i need a female opinion. do you like men who wears skinny jeans or baggy jeans.. $but remember to back it up with a story like$  this friend is dating a girl, she is very pretty, and my friend likes baggy pants. She told him to wear skinny jeans or she ll break up. Wats up with that.....  Get the picture. This way you dont come off needy and its something new for them...

Another way you can open is by saying ...Hellllloooooooooooo.. Ya like that.

For both ways to work, you need to have a higher energy than the group you are approaching.  

Approaching and dating women is a skill, you have to learn it, The thing is people can only show you the door, you have to walk through it. You need any help, just email me...  

Answer 3

I personally like it when the person trys to get to know me. I HATE lines and I HATE it when the guy gives too many compliments. Be yourself and when you ask questions, don't "grill". Be easy.

Answer 4

i'll wait for girls to answr that n latr hv a look at it......nice question

Answer 5

I prefer a man to come straight up and introduce himself,saves messing about.

As long as he's not overbearing,that's fine.

Answer 6

i love it when a guy come right up to me. i think its the more shy girls who don't like it.

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Answer 7

I think this is pushy........may be start small talk.........?